When it rains, it pours (XP Aug12)

abbyful

My biological grandpa (my mom's father) died yesterday. This doesn't affect me a lot, I only met him a couple times (my mom's parents divorced when she was young and she had no contact with him most of her life, I was in college when he contacted her again). But it really sucks for my mom, everything has been crashing down around her lately: my dad died last month, and last Oct/Nov my grandma (mom's mom) died and I had a miscarriage. This has been a pretty crappy year for my family, especially my mom.

And more bad stuff, my ex-husband's brother's family had a horrible tragedy where one of his step-daughters killed the other one (both teenagers). I didn't know the girls, he got married and adopted them after my ex-husband and I had already divorced. But my ex's family were good people and don't deserve to have their lives torn apart like that.

Too much sadness and tragedy lately...

missnacholover

OH man.  That is a LOT.  ((( @abbyful )))

uncharted01

I'm so sorry for all the bad things happening right now. Keep your head up and remember you can always come here if you need support! I hope your mom stays strong as well.

Lilwatz

So sorry.  That is so much to deal with.  Thoughts and prayers to you and your family and your ex-extended family.  

NLJ82

Holy. Crap.
I'm so sorry all this crappiness is happening around you!

Dana633

So sorry!  Hugs to you and your family.

ejpetey

yikes.. T&P to you and your family!

KMW08

((Hugs)) so many Ts & Ps.

MrsTuna08

Sending lots of ((hugs)) to you and your family.

Jpinky9

Oh my, that is definitely a lot to go through. I am so sorry that you and your family are going through such a rough time. I am send lots of hugs and thoughts your way!!!

rox825

That's a lot for your family to go through in a short time, sending T&P.

silverwings72

Hugs for you and your Mama >:D<

KatheTravis

Hugs for you. Your family and ex husbands are in my thoughts and prayers

LongIslandMama1114

((HUGS)) to you and your family.

cindyNmark2010

Hopefully things will be getting better for you and your family soon.  Hugs to you!!

sweetbabyrahe

that is a lot of tragedy. So sorry for you and your family and prayers go out to you all.

dbgwife

Oh that is so much tragedy... I am so incredibly sorry! I am praying for your family! Truly I am so sorry!

Maelara

Oh my goodness! That is just too much! I'm sorry you're hurting, even if it's indirectly. That still sucks. Your poor mom! Lots of hugs for you and your family. I hope this next year only brings good things for you guys.

dr_pr

What a terrible set of events to go through, especially in a shorter time. Lots of hugs and T&Ps to all involved.

Autumnsnow

I am sooo sorry.  That is def a lot of stuff to go through all within a year.  Sending lots of hugs to you, your mom and ex's family.  

lovingaddi

I'm so sorry! T&Ps for you and your family

jlove253

Ugh, geez. You and your loved ones need a break. Praying for you all, especially your mom. I'm sorry.

absolutelymaybe

Rough times. I'm sorry your family is going through so much right now. Hopefully things will get better.

Kehlepop

I am so sorry, that is so much to be dealing with! My t&ps are with you, your mom, and your ex's family. I hope things start looking up for you guys!

TeeJ526

Oh my... I'm so sorry @abbyful for all that's going on right now. I really hope thing start getting better. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

mexinugget

I'm sorry. Big hugs for you. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family to find some peace.

mockingjay1

I am so sorry you and your family (especially mom) are going through such a hard time. Sending you all many thoughts and prayers. If you need anything from us, please let us know. 

lizgrace03

Sorry to hear @abbyful. Thoughts and prayers.

dh2613

Very sad to hear all these things, you are right that at times when it rains it really really pours. T&P your way and I really hope that things begin to look up for you and your family. It is a lot to go through and deal with.