July 2013 Moms
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T&Ps for Heather
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**I am purposefully NOT tagging her because she wants to keep her new SN secret. Please do NOT tag her***
Heather is in NJ/PA for vacation and for a doctor's appt for Harper. She is nervous about about seeing the doctors tomorrow, but she can handle that. Lord knows she's had to deal with more than her fair share of doctors' appts. But she's really worried about her ex being there. He has a lot of anger and rage, and it's directed at Heather. Physically, I think she is safe, but his constant anger and harassment is really wearing her down. She really needs us right now. Any thoughts or prayers you can send her way would be amazing.
She is an amazing friend, both to everyone on here and IRL. She doesn't deserve all the crap she has to wade through on a daily basis, but I think sometimes she forgets that. Please help me remind her that none of this is her fault, or punishment for something she did.
I will update everyone on what the doctors say and how the appt goes when I hear from her tomorrow.
Love and hugs to you all!
eta: I forgot to add that she doesn't have internet access so she won't see this until she gets home on Saturday, but I hope that whatever we can send out into the universe will help her. 
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Re: T&Ps for Heather
And one more for you for being a good friend when you are dealing with your own struggles >:D<
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
L: 7/12/13
C: 5/11/15
E: 3/7/17
Due 11/10/18
Baby boy 7.10.13
Karen - 36 DH - 39
I lost my angels 07/2010, 04/2017, 10/2017
Meimsx no more
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
I know you know that none of this is your fault and you didn't do anything to deserve it - please try to let yourself *believe* that.
Hoping and praying for all the best for you and H!
DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
My little love was born July 20th, 2013!
BFP 11.11.12
TTC #1 Since March 2012
Love and hugs to both of you and Harper.