Are y'all talking to your SOs/DHs about how y'all plan to parent or do you just tackle things as they come. We haven't really talked about it (should it be a formal conversation)? But for the most part we seem to be pretty much on the same page.
Ex: someone gave us a pack of binkies and he said he didn't really want LO on the binkie and to me it's nbd so I'll go along with limiting giving her a binkie if at all.
Something was bought up about co sleeping and we just both kind of had it in our minds that we didn't like the co sleeping idea (mostly because we're both restless sleepers)
So mostly everything that's been bought up to us, instinctively we just sort of agree on but it worries me that something will happen and we'll take, or want to take, VERY
different approaches to the situation.
Other FTM what are y'all doing, and STM how did yall make the decisions and what would you (if anything) do differently.
Disclaimer: I realize there's no guide to parenting and it's always different for everyone.

TIA
Re: Parenting question
"What did my fingers do before they held you? What did my heart do with it's love?"
We take things as they come. I had a lot of ideas about what I would do and then when reality hit, my plans changed. We discuss major things, but I'm the researcher in the family, so I make more of the decisions and he just kinda goes along with them. And I've given in on things that aren't that important to me.
EDD: September 23
PGAL: September 2010
AMA:
Dh and I have years of parenting older kids (from previous relationships) but this will be our 2nd together. It's the things that come forward every day with dd2. I want her to be able to hold my hand in a parking lot and walk with me in the store, dh says that's his baby girl and then carried her around like a princess. Um, hi. I'm the one that goes places alone with all of the kids while you're at work. He sees my point now and is working on correcting her behavior when he's around.
You absolutely have to have a running conversation on what is working and what is not. Trial and error will happen and there will be times that you just have to meet in the middle. Always talk it out and don't stay pissed because you both think your way is best.
In the moment always back each other up, you can sort it out later.
It's okay to change your mind. I sometimes even tell my kids and husband this midstream.
Kids are smart, it's okay for daddy to do his bedtime his way and you to do it your way. They'll figure it out and then you'll get a night off. This transfers to many routines.
baby #3 arrived in September 2014...cannot get ticker to work no matter what I try!
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