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Ladies, can I come back?

holliberry28holliberry28 member
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Good Morning,

Pretty certain I had a chemical pregnancy.  3 days of faint lines followed by 2 days of BFN's.  Still no AF though.  Would it be ok if I came back here and hung our with you ladies? Not sure where to post, TWW or WTO, I'm on CD 32/17 DPO.

Have a Happy Friday All!


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  • PinkRoses53PinkRoses53 member
    So sorry for your loss @holly628 .  I am going through the same thing.  It sucks.  I finally started bleeding on CD 19, 2 days after my test turned negative.

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  • Bee1112Bee1112 member
    I'm so sorry. Hugs

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  • Wine&CupcakesWine&Cupcakes member
    So sorry. Hugs. Hope you aren't back here for long.
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  • holliberry28holliberry28 member
    Thanks everyone.  I did miss you guys.

    @PinkRoses@53, sorry you're back here too.  

    My temps seem to be heading down so I'm hoping AF will hurry her ass up and get here so we can start trying again.

    If anyone doesn't mind to a chart stalk, would you say FF was right with the CH at CD15?  If my husband didn't confirm the positive tests, I would probably be second guessing myself on the BFP.


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  • MiraK03MiraK03 member
    I'm sorry :(
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  • jaclynnejaclynne member
    I'm so sorry :(
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  • 3houlagirl3houlagirl member
    I'm so sorry!
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  • littlewest1littlewest1 member
    Awe, I'm sorry.  I started AF of CD 30 of my CP (one day after my first negative).  Hoping it starts soon so you can get back to TTC.  Hugs

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  • cateyes543cateyes543 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. 
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  • sister13sister13 member
    I took a quick look at your chart and I think CD 15 is as close a guess as possible with the open circles and rocky temps pre-O. There is always wiggle room on either side, so 15 or 16 is possible, but FF pretty much always picks the day before any temp rise.  I'm very sorry for your loss.  

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    sister13 said:
    I took a quick look at your chart and I think CD 15 is as close a guess as possible with the open circles and rocky temps pre-O. There is always wiggle room on either side, so 15 or 16 is possible, but FF pretty much always picks the day before any temp rise.  I'm very sorry for your loss.  
    @sister13, thanks for looking! I think the open circles were because I drank the night before. Just wanted to make sure that in fact my period is bordering on the late side and not that I O'd late. 



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  • MamaBinaMamaBina member
    I'm so sorry :( that sucks.
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    Greeneyes842 said:

    So sorry for your loss, (((hugs))). 

     Were you using the fertility monitor?  I saw there was a Peak entered on CD 14, but negative OPKs?  FF might have given you crosshairs instead of solid lines because of the negative OPK.

     If you were using the fertility monitor, and received a peak reading you should remove the negative OPK from that day (probably confusing FF). I'd say it looks like you O'd on CD15 or 16. 

    Thank you.  This might be a stupid question, but what do you mean by fertility monitor? I was using OPK's from CD 12-14 and was getting lines gearing toward O but nothing positive.  Ran out of tests on CD 15 so I guessed that was my O day. By CD 16 it was already very negative on the OPKs.  Sorry for the confusion, that was my first cycle charting/temping.


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  • BabyCowbellBabyCowbell member
    Sorry holly.

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  • MagFranklin13MagFranklin13 member
    So very sorry
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  • holliberry28holliberry28 member
    @greeneyes842, thanks for pointing that out to me! I didn't even notice that! It was accidental and I removed it so now FF gave me solid CH for CD 16.  Doesn't change much with the CP except that I'm not that late with AF now, so that's good hopefully. 


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  • WestCoastGirl05WestCoastGirl05 member
    I'm so sorry to hear about this (((HUGS)))
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  • RN1175RN1175 member
    Sorry for your loss

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  • OnceInLoveWithAmyOnceInLoveWithAmy member
    so sorry for you loss Holly.  I started bleeding about four days after my positive test.  Hopefully your body will figure itsself out.  

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    So sorry for your loss
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  • hydrangea1019hydrangea1019 member
    So sorry for your loss :(
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  • dmsmthdmsmth member
    So sorry for your loss
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  • FJM85FJM85 member
    Sorry for your loss.xx

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  • DaikokuJessDaikokuJess member
    I hate that you have to go through this.

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  • hullabalouhullabalou member
    I'm sorry :/
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    Aw, Holly, I'm sorry.. *Hugs*


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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I'm sorry.
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    sorry to hear that hun.

     

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  • holliberry28holliberry28 member
    I appreciate everyone comments so much.  You're all really helping me deal with this, so just a big thank you.  Can anyone direct me to any old threads that might shed any insight on CP? I've found info but only on those hokey pokey sights, and I'm not interested in reading fluffed up crap.  TIA :)


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  • raelynn71109raelynn71109 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. When I had my CP it took a couple of days before I started bleeding after I got a BFN. ((Hugs))

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    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

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  • pippacricketpippacricket member
    Oh no! I'm so sorry for your loss Holly.
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    I'm sorry - I hope you don't have to stay here too much longer :( T&P for you.
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    I'm so sorry.



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    Sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    I'm sorry :(
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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I'm so sorry :(

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    I'm so sorry.
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    Cycle 4: Anovulatory/Prometrium=127 days! RE consult 6/16
    Me: Anov/poss. pcos?  HSG=normal/SA= Normal 
    July/Aug. 2014= Femara+trigger+TI=BFP!!
    Beta #1@ 16dpo=626!! Beta #2=1510
    Ultrasound @ 5w6d=heartbeat at 110!
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