Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Going through miscarriage alone

I'm trying to be strong. But it's hard when you're all alone. When i found out about my miscarriage at the hospital i called the father ( boyfriend of 1 1/2) told him and he hung up on me. I haven't heard from him since. I thought he would be here for me. I don't understand and that hurts more than the actual miscarriage

Re: Going through miscarriage alone

  • I'm so sorry. If you have any questions, we're more than happy to help. I'm sorry you're finding yourself alone at such a vulnerable time. Take care.
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
  • Yaz14Yaz14 member
    I'm really sorry. I hope it's not too bold of me to say "how f*cking dare he?!" that kind of thing really pisses me off. I hope it gets better for you. Best of luck!

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    BFP#1 February 18th 2014/EDD October 27th/MMC discovered at 10w/D&C April 7th 
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  • Thank you. I'm just going to leave the relationship alone. He showed his true colors, he wasn't there when i needed him most. My daughter has been here to wipe my tears. I don't need him.
  • Oh my gosh, I am so so sorry!!! My heart breaks for you!!!!
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    DD: 10 (born August 2004)
    Married 03/01/14
    TTC#2
    BFP: 05/17/2014 EDD: 1/25/15 MMC: 06/30/2014
    BFP: 01/31/15 MMC: 02/25/15 





  • LimaDLimaD member
    I am so sorry!  My husband was out of state when my MC happened so I understand having to go through it alone.  I'm just sorry that your reason for being alone is b/c your ex is a complete ass. ((Hugs)) to you, and I hope others around you can show you some love during this time. I'm so sorry for your loss
  • I am so sorry. Is there a friend or relative you can lean on? This board was such a source of comfort for me.
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  • So very sorry that you are feeling so alone. I can't imagine how hard that must be. Sending you so many hugs.
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    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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  • I'm so, so sorry you are going through this.

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