TTC After a Loss

*****Friday Crazy Train*****

This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles. If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, or you just want to pee on all things, let it out here!

In order for the conductors to be better able to help you, please make sure you either have a FF chart link in your sig, or make sure you post a link. Don't chart? You should consider it, not only will it give you a lot more insight to your cycles, but conductors will be able to answer a lot of your questions just by looking at your chart!

The CT is not the place to post a BFP. If you have a "squinter" or if you have a line that appeared after the time frame, please do not post about it here.  Take a step back from the board, test again with FMU, and good luck!

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Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO: 

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here: 

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My Ovulation Chart
TTC since March 2012 
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14

Re: *****Friday Crazy Train*****

  • Quick question... This is my first cycle using opks so I feel like i have no idea what os going on... A +opk on cd10? Is that normal/a normal thing? It seems early, but that means I am "gearing up" to o right?


    BFP: 9/21/13 | EDD:5/31/14 | MC confirmed:11/6/13 | D&C:11/12/13
    BFP: 1/14/14 | EDD: 9/21/14 | MC confirmed: 2/3/14 | D&C: 2/4/14
    DX 3/18/14 (Complete) Septate Uterus | Resection 4/22/14
    BFP: 8/5/14 | EDD: 4/19/15
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    LiaMadi1
  • Quick question... This is my first cycle using opks so I feel like i have no idea what os going on... A +opk on cd10? Is that normal/a normal thing? It seems early, but that means I am "gearing up" to o right?
    Yup! Totally normal. I think I got my first one at CD10 or CD11!

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  • Can I just hang out here until Monday?

     

    :-??

  • Thank yoooouuu @PinkCamino‌!

    So, last question. This hour (sorry for so many) when would I start my progesterone, 3 days from now, or 3 days from the temp rise.

    BFP: 9/21/13 | EDD:5/31/14 | MC confirmed:11/6/13 | D&C:11/12/13
    BFP: 1/14/14 | EDD: 9/21/14 | MC confirmed: 2/3/14 | D&C: 2/4/14
    DX 3/18/14 (Complete) Septate Uterus | Resection 4/22/14
    BFP: 8/5/14 | EDD: 4/19/15
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  • Can I just hang out here until Monday?

     

    :-??
    Of course!  Sit right here next to me.   :-*

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    My Ovulation Chart
    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
    PinkCamino
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
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    edited June 2014
    Crazy level from 1-10: 10

    CD/DPO: 58 / ?

    Can I just ______ already?!: *get AF* 

    Signs/Symptoms: spotting yesterday

    Explain your Crazy here: I'm on day 58 of my post-D&C cycle. I thought for sure AF was finally on her way because yesterday I had a tiny bit of red spotting-- some small streaks of red in my CM when I wiped. I was all excited. Then last night and tonight--- nothing. I took an OPK this morning (the kind that says its OK to use with FMU) and it was positive. I backed it up with a cheapy and, yep, blaringly positive. My beta on Wednesday was just 7, so I'm thinking my HCG is too low to mess with the OPK results. Plus I've had negatives up until today. So if I'm gearing up to O, that means my period could still be 2 weeks out...  :((
     
    I know, I know, there's no way to know if I O without temping. I decided not to temp this cycle because I thought it would drive me crazy after the D&C. But now I sort of wish I had been. Let's be honest, though. If I'd been temping I'd probably be riding the train every day for the last 40 days.

    Just wanted to whine, I guess.

    eta: beta info
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
    In search of a image


  • Thanks ladies... You're the bestest.

    BFP: 9/21/13 | EDD:5/31/14 | MC confirmed:11/6/13 | D&C:11/12/13
    BFP: 1/14/14 | EDD: 9/21/14 | MC confirmed: 2/3/14 | D&C: 2/4/14
    DX 3/18/14 (Complete) Septate Uterus | Resection 4/22/14
    BFP: 8/5/14 | EDD: 4/19/15
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  • Crazy level from 1-10: 10

    CD/DPO: 58 / ?

    Can I just ______ already?!: *get AF* 

    Signs/Symptoms: spotting yesterday

    Explain your Crazy here: I'm on day 58 of my post-D&C cycle. I thought for sure AF was finally on her way because yesterday I had a tiny bit of red spotting-- some small streaks of red in my CM when I wiped. I was all excited. Then last night and tonight--- nothing. I took an OPK this morning (the kind that says its OK to use with FMU) and it was positive. I backed it up with a cheapy and, yep, blaringly positive. My beta on Wednesday was just 7, so I'm thinking my HCG is too low to mess with the OPK results. Plus I've had negatives up until today. So if I'm gearing up to O, that means my period could still be 2 weeks out...  :((
     
    I know, I know, there's no way to know if I O without temping. I decided not to temp this cycle because I thought it would drive me crazy after the D&C. But now I sort of wish I had been. Let's be honest, though. If I'd been temping I'd probably be riding the train every day for the last 40 days.

    Just wanted to whine, I guess.

    eta: beta info
    (((((((HUGS)))))))  FX AF shows very soon.  If you are gearing up to O, at least AF is within sight.  More (((((HUGS))))) 

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    My Ovulation Chart
    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
    BookishMomma
  • @pinkcamino I've got everything crossed for you!
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
    In search of a image


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  • @pinkcamino I've got everything crossed for you!


    awwww thanks :D

    FX for AF! FX! I know how horrible it is to wait. I went over 100 days after my first D&C.


  • Crazy level from 1-10: Ummm, I'm a pretty solid 8

    CD/DPO:  cd1??



    Explain your Crazy here:     After I bitched out my RE's nurse about how AF wasn't coming on her own and I needed to come in for b/w and u/s tomorrow instead of Monday to get the cycle moving..... guess what? An hour after I got my way? AF. Boom. WTF girlfriend.


    P.S.  Going grocery shopping with AF is dangerous.... I've got cookies and ice cream and strawberitas galore. Anyone wanna hang out with me and my stash? LOL :)

    Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 
    NTNP 2009-2012         TTC since 2012:
    • Clomid, 2 IUI cycles, and 5 IVF cycles = BFN
    • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
    • Jack dx at 19w1d with Dandy Walker on 12/16/13
    • Severe Pre-e /HELLP set in Jack born sleeping at 20w1d on 12/23/13
    • FET #2 --July 2014  BFP!  ---  EDD  4/5/15

    Jack has handpicked his sibling up there :)

    My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog

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