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Thank you and bye bye for now...

My sweet doctor called me today and my levels dropped to nearly negative. I started bleeding tonight so I'm at least grateful that I am always able to pass everything on my own. This is my 3rd loss in 5 months. She is referring me to an RE so hopefully I will get to meet with them soon. Thank you all for your support during my short stay. I hope to be back very soon. PS - I posted an intro on TTCAL after my second loss, but I was only active for a week or two. Anyone have any advice on how I should ease my way back over there? I keep bouncing around and I feel like I don't really belong anywhere. Good luck to all of you - you're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15

Re: Thank you and bye bye for now...

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  As for TTCAL, just do a short re-intro and join a check-in or two.  The Newbie check-in was always very helpful for me.  ((HUGS))
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  • I am sorry for your loss. I think the ladies at TTCAL are very supportive and would welcome you back. Dont forget the disclaimers about losses in your subject.... I hope the RE has good things for you and that you find yourself back here soon :-( ((hugs))
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  • Thanks ladies! Another question: since my son was born I ovulate later - day 21. I'm wondering if old eggs could be my problem. My OB said they would probably start me on Femara. I'm just terrified that it could be scarring from my emergency cs that is preventing these babies from implanting. I'd appreciate any advice or success stories after similar situations.
    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
  • I'm sorry for your loss. I agree that a short RE-intro would be a good idea. Also, the newbie check-in is a great starting point.
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     TTC #1 since March 2011 
    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
    BFP #3: EDD 1/27/15 Please be our rainbow! ...Team Green

  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Best of luck with the RE, I hope they can get you some answers very soon!

    TTC since October 2012

    BFP#1 1/11/13, EDD 9/19/13, M/C at 9wk6dy 

    BFP#2 11/12/13, DS born 7/28/14!

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  • megbmegmegbmeg member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get some great help at the RE and that you'll be back soon. Take gentle care of yourself!
    Baby GIRL born 12/11/14!!
    MC @ 8 wks 7/6/13 - ectopic @ 6 wks 12/28/13

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  • I am so sorry for your loss

    Married DH 3/14/09

    TTC Since Jan 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS Jan 2013
    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


  • I am sorry for you loss and I pray that seeing the RE soon will help you get answers and bring you back here quickly. TTCAL is an awesome place... Just ease your way back by giving support and joining in. In sure they will welcome you back with open arms. ((Hugs))

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    Married my awesome guy on 12/27/08

    DD Lucy Rae born on 11/16/2010

    Loss #1: November 29, 2012 at 8w1d

    Loss #2: June 9, 2013 at 13w (Amelia Grace)

    BFP #4: We are having a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Peter Matthew was born on July 16, 2014!!! Welcome to our family!


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss!  The RE is a great next step and will look into scarring and your cycles.  A quick re-intro on TTCAL is the perfect way to re-join that community.  Good luck, and I hope you get some answers soon!
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • I am sorry for your loss. I think PP have you great advice to re-intro ing on TTCAL. Read the sticky at the top, check out the blog and you should be ready. Best of luck to you. I hope the RE can give you some answers.


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  • I'm so sorry. It's just not fair. Big hugs to you.

    I sought the help of an RE after multiple losses as well. We had five losses. It was the best decision I made to go to an RE. OBs are great but most don't really know what to test for as it relates to recurrent loss. I ovulated very late too and had a questionable luteal phase and I always thought that maybe that had something to do with my egg quality and was causing my losses. This pregnancy I took co enzyme q 10 three months leading up to trying again and opted for Clomid with Ovidrel without IUI and it got my ovulation up by a week and us well into second trimester now so I would definitely ask your RE about Femera or clomid. There is no way to know if that is what did the trick but my husband and I definitely feel like it. A hysteroscopy is a procedure that can be done to rule out scarring and can give you a better look internally. I had it done and I found it easy physically and it was good to get some answers. There are a ton more tests that can be run too.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. If I can be of any help to you please don't hesitate to private message me anytime. I have pretty much had all the tests and procedures done so let me
    know if I can help. Recurrent loss or any loss can feel like a very isolating experience but you aren't alone. There is hope.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Sending you lots of hugs.

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  • I'm very sorry *hugs*
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Many ((((hugs)))).
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you much love & strength (((hugs)))

    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope the RE can give you some answers so that you'll be back here for good soon.

    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
    m/c @4wks 3/2014

  • KMW08KMW08 member
    I'm sorry for your loss(es). (((Hugs)))

    Since you weren't active on ttcal just do a reintro. A warning is only needed if you're speaking about living children.

    BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Big hugs to you.

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    BFP #1 1/4/14; EDD 9/16/14;  mc 1/17/14 
    BFP #2 3/12/14; baby girl born 11/21/14          
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  • rox825rox825 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
    Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
    Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
    Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • Thank you all SO much! I appreciate all the advice on how to move forward from here. I'm just going to take it one day at a time and focus on how blessed I already am. @jess123456 thank you for sharing your experience. I'm happy to know that there are so many here who have been through this and are having healthy pregnancies. I will definitely pm you if I have any questions. I wish you all the very best! See you soon!
    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
  • I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) Take care of yourself and we hope to see you again soon for the long haul!
  • I am so sorry for your current and past losses. glad you will be a to see a re and get some answers. t&p are with you!!! (((hugs)))
  • I am so sorry. :( 

    I hope the RE can help give you some answers.

    First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  Hope the RE is able to provide some answers and a reason to hope. ((Hugs))

    Me: Endometriosis, PCOS, Insulin Resistance, Estrogen Dominance, Irregular Cycles
    DH:  100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
     BFP #1 (Surprise!)  "Monkey"- 09/16/2006. DS born 06/01/2007.   
    BFP #2  "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d 
    BFP #3  "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d 
    BFP #4  "Star" EDD 07/06/14- MC 11/28/13 @ 8 weeks
    BFP #5 "Baby J"- 02/07/14. DS born 10/29/2014 My Rainbow!
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Many ((hugs))
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    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
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  • nyg2042nyg2042 member
    I am very sorry for your loss.  I agree with PP's - do a short re-intro, give support and maybe join a few check-ins.  I hope that you are able to get into an RE soon and that he/she is able to provide answers and guidance.


    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

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  • JCM285JCM285 member
    I am so sorry for your loss and sending you T&Ps. I hope that your specialist can shed some light and help you thru this. Take care for yourself. ((Hugs))
    Married my best friend 7/2/11 - Furbaby born 7/9/11 and brought into our home 9/1/11

    BFP#1:   2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14

    BFP#2:   2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed 

    Surprise BFP#3:  4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!

    John Joseph was born on 12/12/14 at 7 lbs. 11 oz.  He is the most beautiful rainbow baby we could have wished for!


  • voplovoplo member
    I am sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some answers with the RE. Take care.

    Mummy to 2 wonderful children
    Noah (2011) & Lily (2014)
  • I am so sorry for your loss

    "It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going,
    And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now"

    TTC Journey Began 8/12
    BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13
    SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis Unexplained
     BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole) 
    BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole)
    Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14
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  • kibyloukibylou member
    So sorry. I think ttcal will understand why you are bouncing around and be even more compassionate because of it. Take care of yourself and hope you get to see your RE soon.
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  • So incredibly sorry. My thoughts are with you.
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
    Baby GIRL on the way!!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
    BFP #2 3/19/14      EDD: 11/28/14
     Femara + Gonal F + Ovidrel  3/6/14  IUI #3 (plus 2x acupuncture)

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    BFP #1 7/22/13   EDD 3/29/14   MMC 8/13/13
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss :(
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