Off BC, NTNP since June 2011
Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012
First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12
8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS
Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10)
Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!
Re: Are little ones invited?
So.... there is no straight answer.
Have you been to many showers? What normally happens?
No, although I did go to a shower last summer sans DD (her name was not on the envelope) and another guest did show up with her similarly aged LO.
I assume her LO wasn't on the envelope either, but she decided to being him anyway.
Showers are boring enough for adults, IMO. They must be torture for bebehs.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
Off BC, NTNP since June 2011
Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012
First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12
8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS
Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10)
Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!
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As he gets older, it's less of an issue. But when he was a toddler? Oh hell no!
I am not sure whether my DD (who's almost 4) will be invited to SILs bridal shower this summer. I will ask MIL if they want her to come. Even though it's at MILs house, dd may be happier staying home with DH and DS.
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
Oscar born October 2011
Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)
DD due September 1, 2014
Kids names are on the invitations though so it is clear who is invited.
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Although I would agree that ordinarily, they would only attend if listed on the invite
Unless it's at someone's house AND the child was invited, I would never assume it was okay to bring them.
DS: June 2012
MC: July 2015 8w5d