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  • This is going to sound catty (brace yourselves - a random friend of mine is PG)…

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    TP to our friends who got married 6 months ago, and kept preaching, "ohhhh we don't want to get PG…it's so ridiculous to get married and try right away," and then post a stupid-ass picture of her with a "future thing" shirt on (with an arrow pointing to her belly), on FB. Oh, and in the picture, she is drinking ginger ale and eating saltines, AND giving the middle finger. 

    So, there's that.
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • @kistyW13 - I know, right???? I felt sick to my stomach about that…did she think it was a funny "FB moment" or something? I looked at my DH, and just said, "SERIOUSLY?"

    People are just idiots.


    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • @EurydiceNymph - Bahahahaha!!! I love you! That is perfection.
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • @HMR11913 - Yeah…at times, I want to get rid of FB, but then I usually like seeing pictures and whatnot. 

    Do you think she will print that picture and then send it out as the official announcement?

    Ok, enough about my TP…didn't mean to be an AW!!! Love to you all!
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • HMR11913 said:

    EurydiceNymph --- love the picture, our dog does the same thing to our cat, ha!

     

    @kvillano82 --- That's a real beautiful pregnancy announcement..................................


    The things that I’ve seen recently on FB just disgusts me… and maybe things like this have been there all along and I just didn’t pay attention, but I’ve been ready to chuck my phone across the room several times… someone posted a picture of their newborn and said “Go the f*ck to sleep!” ………….. um…….. REALLY?!??!?!?!??!?!?!? 

    ((Hugs)) that is one of my biggest pet peeves! I see so many of those. (see below .gif and warning for story/rant)

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    **Newborn Mentioned**





    My cousin, who knocked up a girl who already has 3 by 3 different daddies posted a picture yesterday of his newborn son (born the day before mother's day, THAT was fun to see/hear about) laying on the couch alone, popped up with pillows with the bottle propped in his mouth. The babies hands were on the bottle and the caption was "My big boy already holding his own bottle!" 

    Are you fucking kidding me? Pick up your damn child and feed him! Count your blessings and take advantage of every moment you have. 

    Things that also need to not be posted: videos of them doing something "cute" that look dangerous from the camera angle (I'll give the benefit of the doubt that there were things/other people off camera that made it safer), posting about your children misbehaving, and posting how lazy of a parent you are, or things that reflect poorly on your parenting. WHY does the world need to know these things? 

     /rant. Sorry. It's a Monday and I am in a mood. 

     
    Don't be sorry!! That is FREAKING RIDICULOUS. I am sorry that you had to see that shit…I think there should be some sort of testing that needs to be done, like a clearance thing, before people can have children. ((hugs)) my dear!!

    Can I add to your list of things that don't need to be on FB when it comes to children? Please do not take a picture of your child's "first poop on the potty," and literally put up a picture of the toilet. It happened 2 weeks ago on FB. I'm not squeamish, but REALLY? Your kid's poop??????
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • Ok, I know it's Monday, and I have a very low give-a-shit. But TP to the "co-worker" who asked me to spell 'medicine' so he could send a txt. I had to respell it for him 5 times!!!!!! Seriously? :-w

    In retrospect (which I doubt he can spell either), I should have spelled it wrong for him on purpose.
    >:)
    I don't blame you…and it's not because I am an English teacher. I mean, "medicine," really? 
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • Yeah he's definitely
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    All I know is

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    [Deleted User]kvlady82[Deleted User]
  • NoeliaVNoeliaV member
    *snip*

    All I know is

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    Yes, this.
    I don't know what is in the air, but I'm feeling butthurt (note: not the same as buttdrunk) over everything today. 
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    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
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  • I'm sorry, @NoellaV :(
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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    NoeliaV
  • TP to my husband's niece (who will be 18 in July).  She lied to my SIL saying that she broke up with her drug dealer boyfriend, but really she was still seeing him.  Then after going on a rampage, which included beating up on her little sister and telling the police that her dad beats her (not true), was thrown out of her parents' house.  So her plan is to move in with her boyfriend and get pregnant as soon as possible because "a baby will make everything alright".

    @{{hugs}} to @kvillano82 @HMR11913 and @EurydiceNymph for the crappy things you've seen on Facebook.  I'm still avoiding Facebook like the plague for that reason.  

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
  • Wow @MrsKush1014, ((hugs)) to you and FX that your niece will get her head on straight and get her life going in a better direction. In particular a direction that doesn't involve bringing an innocent baby into a situation like that. 
    I know...we've all tried to reach her, but at this point it appears that she's going to have to get there on her own.   :-S  

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
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    I'm sorry, @NoellaV :(
    Thanks, love :)
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    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
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    kvlady82
  • NoeliaVNoeliaV member
    ((Hugs)) @NoeliaV. I'm sorry that you're having a hard day.
    Thank you :) Tomorrow will be better, yes?
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    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
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  • TP to my husband's niece (who will be 18 in July).  She lied to my SIL saying that she broke up with her drug dealer boyfriend, but really she was still seeing him.  Then after going on a rampage, which included beating up on her little sister and telling the police that her dad beats her (not true), was thrown out of her parents' house.  So her plan is to move in with her boyfriend and get pregnant as soon as possible because "a baby will make everything alright".

    @{{hugs}} to @kvillano82 @HMR11913 and @EurydiceNymph for the crappy things you've seen on Facebook.  I'm still avoiding Facebook like the plague for that reason.  
    Thank you :)

    Also, geez, I am so sorry about your niece. Drugs really do some crazy things to people (like the fact that she lied about her father beating her), and sometimes, there is no reaching them. UGH. And that misconception that not just young kids, but some people have, about bringing a baby into the world when things are dysfunctional…as if the innocent baby can fix it all! So sorry…((hugs))
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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  • SoulbyteSoulbyte member
    edited May 2014
    TP to my husbands ex wife who even 3 years on still gives him grief about pointless shit every other day. And small TP to my DH who just takes it for an easy life. Some people are so ridiculous it's not true. The ex, not my DH!
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  • @MrsKush1014: Big ((hugs)) and Fx that your niece will find her way.
    People never fail to surprise me with how wrongly they perceive babies and relationships...I met a woman the other day who told me she broke up with he fiance because she "got her pregnant on purpose"...I mean, can you believe that?? The man that she she was going to marry and spend the rest of her life got her pregnant so she left him. Ugh.
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN

    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d 
     
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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