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goldfishbritt

LundleBean

I'm sorry you find yourself here.  I hope an RE can help clarify your best options.

But, "one of those couples" ? Ouch.

cls78

We are all "one of those couples" here, but we are a group of strong women. You can do this. Calm down make an appointment with a RE and see what they have to say. GL to you.

Tea+

I seriously don't understand why so many people think IVF is this big horrible thing. I've seen that quite often lately. Yes, it's expensive and a hard road to travel, but otherwise, I think it's a great opportunity when everything else probably won't work. Exhausting all your options before deciding if CF is for you or not. Which most here would give a limb to have a child. Meh, that's just me though. 

Sorry you find yourself here as I know it's hard. I hope you find peace with it if it is the route you decide to take. Happy anniversary and I wish you luck moving forward.

MissEm15

Depending on what scale you are talking about, 9% morphology is above normal.. my husband has 2-3% and we are moving forward w/ IUI's. He was able to get me pregnant (early loss). I def. wouldn't be discouraged yet. Take a breath & good luck w/ your appt.

goldfishbritt

@LundleBean @IFinTN @Cls78 I'm sorry I used the wrong words. I didn't mean to be hurtful. I guess it's just one of those things that you never expect to happen to you is what I meant to say!

Thanks for the support everyone. I'm obviously in the very early stages of this IVF journey, even though we've been trying to conceive for almost 3 years now.

Good luck!