December 2013 Moms

Whine

We were always very active social people before lo was born. Now dh never wants to do anything. I understand it's tiring etc but I just want to get out of the house as a family and have some fun on the weekends. I would have loved to go to the museum and breakfast with lo today but of course dh wants us to just stay home yet again.

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  • Go without him!

     

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    My SO never wants to do anything. For a while I kinda let it control me but I have since just started going without him. I am much happier. :)
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  • Since this is new for you guys I'd have a discussion about it. Sitting around gets old quick.




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  • I second talking to him about it. Find out what is holding him up. Maybe he's nervous the baby will have a meltdown in public, etc? Maybe you could get him to agree to try it once to see how it goes.
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  • Also we were both scared at first to venture out but the more we did it our confidence grew. It is also a lot easier to get out more than when they are one and want to run everywhere.




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  • It is scary the first few times you take baby out but the more you do it the easier it gets.
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