BFing and sex

Lena122

DD is 4 months old and DH and I are finally having sex somewhat regularly. But I just don't feel comfortable taking off my sleep bra and don't want him touching my breasts at all.

DH is understandably bummed out by it and I feel bad. Anyone else in a similar boat? Am I being overly sensitive?

Chelsea33833

Haha my guy is just happy to be getting anything at all! LO has a radar built in. Whenever his dad touches me, he wakes up and puts the brakes on anything happening!

MiaMyPuggle

I keep mine on bc H will get a boob juice facial if not! In regards to nipple sensitivity...they go back to the way they used to be a few months after you're finished BFing. Mine seem desensitized when I'm nursing.

CopperT0p

I leave on my sports style nursing bra at night and during ST.  I don't mind him touching them overtop the bra, but rather he not pop them out since I'm afraid of giving him a milk bath.

SJSLA

In the same boat as well. During ST and when sleeping I wear a nursing tank & breast pads. It's very unsexy but I'm more comfortable this way right now. Occasionally I'll take it all off but it's look don't touch which makes him go crazy

sarahlisa00

I wear a nursing tank or bra too during ST, not because they'll leak just because it's more comfortable. They are so sensitive and not in a good sexual way. And the slightest pressure is uncomfortable. My H hasn't complained, I'm sure he knows it isn't forever.

Roses87

Ditto what others said.

ChuggingWater

Nope. I feel really uncomfortable the few times he has tried.

Lena122

Thanks ladies. At least I know I'm not alone. I also feel less guilty now.