Loving my foster son....

sugardumpling

Hating how I feel I don't get all information upfront. I know it a process but I should not have to pull teeth for medical history, consistency from bio parents, and all parties being upfront and honest. I also feel the more I fight the more I am hitting my head on a wall. Any tips to become more diplomatic would be grand.

fernane

Do you have open lines of communication with his ad litem or casa worker if he has one? Our casa worker has been invaluable with getting information. A lot of times I feel like I wouldn't know anything if it wasn't for her!

sugardumpling

No but I will find out if there is one. Thanks for the tip.

CaptainSerious

I wish I had some advice to offer you. I feel that this is so often the case when reunification id's the plan, and the people it hurts most are the children. I'm sorry you are having such a tough time, and hope you find a way to get more information from them soon.

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