Third time around - change in sex drive

jewl625

Hi mommas...I'm 6mo preggo with LO#3 and while with my first two I seemed to have a normal or maybe even increased sex-drive all throughout my pregnancy, this time around its the polar opposite!  Anything beyond a kiss and hug and I'm feeling like "ugh!  I don't want to do this!"  Is this normal to have a decrease in drive?  I know a lot of sex lives might suffer just because of some discomfort but not necessarily a drop in desire, but mine is definitely a a drop in desire...  Anyone experience this?  Especially if it was a change from on pregnancy to another?  If you lost the desire did it come back post baby?

TIA

Hadynimogen

i noticed a big difference between my first 2 pregnancies, with my first a boy i was like a dog on heat i would have humped my hubby all day every day if he had let me. he just had to touch me and off i went lol  but with my second pregnancy a girl i was dry and sore and it was painful and tbh i just wasnt in to it at all,  it did get better the further along in my pregnancy i went but hubby alway had to work a bit harder to get my going if you know what i mean.

third time around im kinda inbetween, but have been having very dirty dreams about my hubby during the night.  so all in all all of my pregnancies have been diferent.

LucilleAustero

STM here, what is this sex drive you are speaking of?

megs2011

With my first pregnancy (twin girls) my sex drive increased however, I was far too sick to even want to have sex. This time around (1 baby, don't know the sex yet) I have little to no sex drive and its very uncomfortable/painful. After the twins, it was very painful and took a really long time to go back to normal for me. Just when I was starting to enjoy sex again, boom, pregnant with #3.

momthatlifts

Ahhhh sex drive. I remember those days. When me and hubby would go at it 2 or 3 times a day. He's lucky if I even let him "get off" real quick just because I feel sorry for him. I'm a ftm so I sure home it comes back.