Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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lindscaples
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Today was a rough day. It was my first day back to work after my d & c. I need to get back to normalcy, but I don't want this "normal". I know you all know all too well what I mean. 
I also got a surprise call from my doctor that the results from the testing were in. I wasn't expecting to hear anything until at least next week at my follow up. But I got the news that there were 46 chromosomes... XY... And the baby boy was healthy.... I broke down. I'm sure it would have been difficult to hear whatever the doctor said... But I didn't expect to hear it was a boy... And that he was healthy.... It broke my heart all over again. So now what? Now what? I've already had a bunch of blood testing done with my first loss... I just don't understand.... I had two healthy pregnancies before this. So I just don't get it.
I also got a surprise call from my doctor that the results from the testing were in. I wasn't expecting to hear anything until at least next week at my follow up. But I got the news that there were 46 chromosomes... XY... And the baby boy was healthy.... I broke down. I'm sure it would have been difficult to hear whatever the doctor said... But I didn't expect to hear it was a boy... And that he was healthy.... It broke my heart all over again. So now what? Now what? I've already had a bunch of blood testing done with my first loss... I just don't understand.... I had two healthy pregnancies before this. So I just don't get it. This discussion has been closed.
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I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. My doc didn't offer for me to bring in the embryo for testing, but I don't think I could handle that knowledge. Hugs to you!
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14
I'm sooo sorry. It's soooo unfair. Finding out your sweet baby was a boy that way is just terrible. I couldn't imagine. (((Hugs))) I don't know if it's easier having an answer or not. When I first found out my baby's heart stopped beating I wanted to know why. Now I worry that it was something I did. Something I could have prevented somehow.
I had two early losses, two healthy pregnancies and now a second trimester loss. I'm still waiting for my results and I think my heart will break no matter what I find out. We found out about 3 weeks before that we were also having a boy. I remember wondering after my first two losses if I could even have children. Then I have two sweet boys and get pregnant again. I thought for sure everything was going to be just like the last two pregnancies. I let my guard down. Now I have so many fears and emotions about being able to have another baby.
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[/RA with Sjogren's Syndrome. Risk of heart block in newborn. Age: DH and I are both 38.
BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009, Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014. 2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal. It's a BOY!!! 4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14. Pathology results were all normal. New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing. Doctor believes this to be the cause of death. Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14. My Chart
08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN ,
10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
9/20/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d
10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm