Just wondering how long you all took off work after your d & c? This is my second miscarriage in 4 months. Physically I'm recovering just fine... Mentally is a slower process...
I'm so sorry for your losses. I only took the day of the procedure (a Wednesday) and day after (Thu) off, then went back the next day (Friday). In some ways, it was a good distraction to go back since no one there knew, but I was definitely in a bit of a fog mentally. I'm glad you're feeling better physically and I hope the mental will follow soon.
Me: 41, DH: 42, married 2009 BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C) BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
I'm sorry for your losses. I took the day of (Fri) and day after (Sat) then went into work on Sunday for 6 hours followed by the whole next week off because I had already taken that week for vacation. I felt okay physically, but by that Monday my emotions were all over the place. I hope you begin to feel better soon.
I find out on a Friday and then took the whole next week off. I had the D&C that Thursday and was back to work by Monday. Physically I was fine even the day after the procedure but I'm glad I took the week. My work knew about the loss and they were all very understanding.
TTC #1: February 1, 2014 BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 (my birthday!) MMC:discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
I would say it really depends on the job and your employer. When I was working I would take the day after surgery off and then go back because I managed group homes and mostly sat at one of the homes all day doing paperwork and if I wasn't feeling well I could lay on the couch. But before that job I was doing a lot more physically demanding work and I would take off 2-3 wks because I had to be cleared to lift 50 lbs.
Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
I am fortunate enough to have a manager who encouraged me to work from home during this ordeal. I only took the day of off (a Friday) and then worked from home Monday and Tuesday. I also worked from home the Tuesday through Thursday before my D&C since I was so emotional.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do. My D&C was a week ago today, so I've only been back in the office for two full days but I do feel that it has been helpful to get back into a routine.
Work was a bit all over the place for me during the time leading up to and after my mc. I actually only took the day of and the day after my d&c off work. I then went back to work for a day (and felt fine) but the day after I began experiencing nerve pains caused by the surgery which meant I was off work for the following 2 days. I found out about my miscarriage 2 weeks before my d&c and had that entire first week following my diagnosis off work at my boss's insistence because emotionally I was a total wreck. All up I had 9 days in total off work because of my mc but technically only 2 days off for my d&c. It totally depends on the individual woman. Physically most will be fine to return to work almost immediately but emotionally I think you should take all the time you need.
Me(24) DH(26)/Married since March 2013
BFP#1 February 18th 2014/EDD October 27th/MMC discovered at 10w/D&C April 7th
BFP#2 July 24th 2014/EDD April 4th 2015/Please be our RAINBOW!
Re: Time off work after d & c
BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
I find out on a Friday and then took the whole next week off. I had the D&C that Thursday and was back to work by Monday. Physically I was fine even the day after the procedure but I'm glad I took the week. My work knew about the loss and they were all very understanding.
TTC #1: February 1, 2014
BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 (my birthday!) MMC: discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
TTC #1 (Round 2): May 16, 2014
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