Can we talk boobs? Especially 2nd time EBFers

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So I have never been a busty girl ( except when I gained weight and was first on BC in college) I've always been a high B low C and pretty perky...
I knew bf'ing would change things but damn, these girls are sad looking! By the end of the day after he has sucked me dry they are so small and deflated! And although my stomach avoided stretch marks my boobs didnt. Ugh
So for you second time EBFers-is this a permanent sad state for my girls? Is there hope for them post bf'ing?
Anyone else wanna see about getting a group discount with dr 90210? Hah....

LoveOfMikesLife

Mine are ruined...... WAY bigger but look like a deflated ballon. I'm tandem nursing though so maybe they will perk back up one day

Dreamingmommy4

Mine are all saggy and deflated looking too. My mom and I were talking though and she said there is hope! She nursed 3 kids and is almost 50 and her boobs aren't deflated and look pretty dang good still. She said that hers filled out and perked up a bit again after each kid. (Mom and I can talk about anything, including comparing boobs. Lol)

justmepreggo2020

FTM here. My twins are not too bad looking at the moment, except for the stretch marks which gotten worse and a bit of sagging.
Though, I know for a fact that I will have a reduction after my second child!! I was always big chested before (hate it) but now with the breastfeeding it's just urgh..totally out of control. I used to be a 32F now am a G cup...

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3Dewdrops

3rd timer here. I never knew why anyone would want plastic surgery until after I nursed my first. Then I understood. There's about 5 years in between my kids. The only improvement with time was that the stretch marks from number 1 became way less noticeable. They are in a sad state. They were definitely worse after number two. I'm afraid what they will look like after number 3.

But maybe it'll be different for you!! Luckily it varies.

Dreamingmommy4

I'm thinking it's time to invest in a good push-up bra!

kailapop

braasche1 said:

First timer here also, I just hope mine go from ricockulously huge to just huge. I'm also contemplating a lift/reduction

This is what happened to me. Went from stupid big to just big. After number 2 I'm getting a lift and reduction.

justmepreggo2020

braasche1 said:

@justMaike‌ I'm jealous, I grew to a G in 1st tri, now I'm a J (

There there

inlove0509

Yep, deflated boobies here too.

But research keeps saying saggy boobs aren't caused by breastfeeding. My theory is it's more the weight gain (causing extra booby skin) during pregnancy. I'd love to hear about FF mama's boobs to test that theory.

I wouldn't be opposed to a boob job in a few years!

mmm50

Mine were DD before and about the same now.  They look great in the morning while they are still full, but by the end of the day sad and deflated too.  I keep saying I am going to get them done when we are done having kids/for my 40th birthday.  Reduced and lifted to a nice perky C.  

sands42

I got stretch marks on my boobs with my first baby but they went away when I quit BF and my boobs looked pretty much the same as pre baby. I am an A cup normally. My boobs are smaller this time around and I didn't get stretch marks again. I hope they get back to normal as they did last time but I can say I am NOT bouncing as well as I did with DD. It sucks.

beccaxbooxbear

I'm a 36 GG now (was 36DD) and I'm praying they go back down after because my neck can't take this weight! I'm hurting everyday!

cagoldi

My Mom BF all of us and hers are terrible. They look like over easy eggs.
We switched to FF after 5 weeks but if mine started looking like hers I would get them fixed once we finished having kids.

I told DH I would fix the girls after we were done with babies and if he had a problem with that plan we weren't getting married.

mamasoup030

My girls got stretch marks and are sagging pretty bad, to add insult to injury, had mine "fixed" at 22 to correct different cup sizes, looks like I need that again after BF. FWP I know, but couldn't wait for Wednesday.

Zilly13

My boobs are beyond sad looking.  I'd a D cup now and they just look tired and worn!

rach1283

I went from a b to a d (this is my first). As for now they are holding up but I am still BF. I've already warned DH after our next and last baby I may be getting some work done if they are in bad shape. Admittedly I also just like having boobs now.

tiki8286

STM here. Peanut pregnancy, I was a small B. With DS, they got to a D with terribly red stretch marks! I EBF him till he was 14 months. They went back down to a B with no visible stretch marks. But I also lost all pregnancy weight and ended up about 10 lbs under my pre pregnancy weight. They looked great!

This time around, same as far as size. B to a D. No stretch marks. I'm back down to a B so we will see how the end up.

justmepreggo2020

Hmm that's an idea

88sharonlee

Boo....this discussion is making me sad. I had such nice boobs! I mean seriously, they were nice, a full C, perky enough, and I could go bra less at home and be comfy and look good.

And now.....well it sounds like everyone on this board knows what they look like now!

Sure they are ok in a bra, but I'm sad when i don't feel as comfortable bra less anymore.

Ok pity part over