So tomorrow my husband starts traveling M-F for work. This will last for about three months. Anyone else deal with this? I would love any tips or tricks to keeping my sanity. I work part time evenings and weekends. I have babysitters lined up for the evenings I'm working and my husband will be home on the weekends. So I'm kind of worried about finding sitters when I need a break from the kids.
I appreciate any insight you can give me!
Edited: So I just thought I would clarify. I'm not suggesting I am expecting to get breaks from life. I meant I am just wondering how other parents have survived this situation without going absolutely crazy.
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
Re: Spouse/significant other travel for work?
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
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I guess I was hoping for some magical tip like, "I always do xyz and it makes things easier." Like your lunch idea. We did a lot of meal prep today because my husband cooks. I suck at it, and he loves it, so that's a big change. I am not saying this is a unique situation...it's just unique for us, and since I haven't done it before (for this long anyway) I thought I'd get some veteran advice or encouragement or whatever.
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
Consider grocery delivery or shop when you have a sitter or on the weekends. Do a bit of cleaning each day so it doesn't build up and overwhelm you. Have a schedule and stick to it!
Use text messaging to communicate your day and more minor things to your H. That way you can talk about bigger things on the phone and get that accomplished in less time, since you're busy. Do some small nice things for each other each week. It could be buying him a candy bar. Remember you're both busy and tired.
If you can afford any services (grocery delivery, cleaning, lawn, dog walking), use them.
Meet with friends for play dates during the day to vent and decompress, or consider occasionally using a mom's day out program.
When dh is on long shifts, I find evenings are the loneliest times. You'll be working then so that'll help. You can also call a friend or chat on here when you're not working.
I don't really get breaks when dh isn't home (though again, he doesn't travel just does long enough shifts there are times he's only home to sleep), but it's doable. Just do it.
When I'm home alone, I often feed DD a really easy dinner like some deli meat turkey, cheese grapes crackers or a pbj sandwich, and then eat myself after she goes to bed. Even if I'm just having a lean cuisine frozen dinner, I get to relax for a minute.
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Try to plan outings with other parents so that you don't have to be entertainment 100% of the time.
exactly what @clarypax said about your week starting strong and then digressing, have your big plans early in the week (food battles or limited tv time for example) and then be ready to eat bagels and cream cheese and watch Frozen twice in a row by Thursday...
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Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
It sucks to be home alone and want a beer to relax and you can't do a thing because the kiddo is sleeping and stores are closed.
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
Justin + Laura 10.18.08
TTC #1 09.10/Dx PCOS 12.10/BFP #1 12.29.10/EDD 9.10.11/Missed m/c 2.3.11/D&C 2.15.11
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”-Kahlil Gibran
Cycle #1 4.2.11 + Clomid = BFN/Cycle #2 5.9.11 + Clomid + Trigger Shot = TWINS!
Walter Allen and Eleanor Joan 1.15.12
Another baby on the way! 8.25.14
My husband travels 3-4 days a week. It sucks. I work FT. Keep it simple and just get the basics done each day.
My husband is great about taking care of our LO one morning on the weekend so mommy can get an extra hour of sleep and take a shower undisturbed. It is the best!!!
Also remember, it is not fun for them either. We facetime each night and send a lot of pics... it helps him when he is missing us. At least it is only 3 months... you will make it.