sex ?

kellim

Is there anyone else?

My husband wants sex from me and I'm so nauseas I can't function.  I try to explain it to him, but he thinks I'm faking it.  I guess I should give in, but I want to hurl!

MrsBatty

He thinks your faking it? um...

Breezer80

Pretty sure having sex with your husband should never be prefaced with the phrase "giving in" ... especially if you're pg with m/s ... tell him to grow a heart.

thefarmchick

just hurl on him while he's trying to be sexy.

Okay not really.  I think we've all had those moments. I told my husband that I love him very much and that I really wanted him too but I was afraid of getting sick and the moment I felt good enough I would let him know.  luckily he was understanding and I was true to my word, if I felt good enough I'd give it a try. You can be sexy toghter and not have sex to feel connected. Hand holding, back rubs, and lots of kisses.

bancbev

Give him a hand job. Problem solved.

C.Mo

Ummm...tell your husband to jump up your @ss. If you don't want to have sex because your aren't feeling well, that is your right and he needs to get over it.

Mrs.BlueEyes

Are you fvcking kidding me - he thinks you're faking it?  Wow.  Just for that comment alone there would be no sex for a LONG time.

kellim

Thanks for reving me up!  I'm ready to fight! lol

SallySunrise

Mrs.BlueEyes:

Are you fvcking kidding me - he thinks you're faking it?  Wow.  Just for that comment alone there would be no sex for a LONG time.

Ditto. Being unsupported like that would totally turn me off.

sgrl

kellim:

I guess I should give in, but I want to hurl!

 

ITA with the "grow a heart" comment. Geez. We've had sex exactly twice since the BFP and I'm not even sick - just tired, and that's a perfectly legit reason in his book. Tell your husband: 

 

2-4-6-8

Sex can wait

Go masturbate! 

MommyMeSoon2B

bancbev:

Give him a hand job. Problem solved.

LOL. I love it. 

b.heather

Sounds like you need to buy him a guy's book on pregnancy!

rianals

Or you could buy him some lotion and paper towells...

BigIsland07

C.Mo:

Ummm...tell your husband to jump up your @ss. If you don't want to have sex because your aren't feeling well, that is your right and he needs to get over it.

Ditto. Sounds like he's being an insenstive ass. Kick him in the balls and ask if he still wants it.

evhamm

I hear you. My husband has been very horny lately, (excited his junk works?!) esp. since I'm pregnant. He keeps pointing out parts of pregnancy books that say how pregnant women are horny too.

 I've been so nauseas and ill in the mornings.  A few days ago he tried to get me in the mood again, but then I just ended up running to the bathroom for my daily puke, returning to bed moaning, and eventualy just gave him a hand job to help his needs. But when he came, I about ran to the bathroom again for the smell. 

My advice is to encourage him to wait till the 2nd trimester, when your cervix is less tender and less apt to create spotting (and thus undue worry). Plus, maybe you'll be less nauseas and more horny then.

SuthrnBelle72

sgrl:

kellim:

 

2-4-6-8

Sex can wait

Go masturbate! 

most.awesome.cheer.EVER! 

sgrl... I think I love you

mfransdell

how can you be so insensative of his needs? He problaby worked a long hard day, I bet you didnt rub his feet or have the roast ready either.

MrsL.inMarch

MrsBatty:

He thinks your faking it? um...

Yep.

KK2004

bancbev:

Give him a hand job. Problem solved.

LOL! He's gotta take what you're willing to give.

KK2004

SuthrnBelle72:

sgrl:

kellim:

2-4-6-8

Sex can wait

Go masturbate! 

most.awesome.cheer.EVER! 

sgrl... I think I love you

You guys crack me up!

courtj

You should hurl on him. Then he'll know you're not faking it!! LOL