Trying to Get Pregnant
RayRay007
member
All the mushy stuff: You ladies have always welcomed me back, but I honestly hope I'm never back here ttc. Unless we decide to have a third. I know I haven't been super active on the main board as work has been keeping me from spending hours on TB following insane UOs and FFFCs and other drama, but I have been pretty regular in the 2WW and W2O and will miss you all. I really hope the best for all of you and hope to see you on the other side soon.
Options
Here I go again... (BFP)
RayRay007
member
I've had Whitesnake in my head all morning:
After two losses in the fall I'm hoping third time's a charm.
Cycle/Month: Cycle 9 (4A2L)
CD/DPO: 25/11
EDD: Dec. 1, 2014 - exactly 8 months after my first loss edd of April 1.
Timing: -2 and O
What we did: I've been doing acupuncture since the end of December. Green tea before O. Sent DD for a sleepover at the ILs on what turned out to be O-2. I went to the spa that afternoon and DH and I went out for Thai. My boss told me after my second loss to "just relax" so it must have been the spa that did the trick (in case you missed it, sarcasm). I happened to have a pineapple so I ate the core and all after O.
Symptoms: Some weird cramps on 5 and 6 dpo. Nose bleed on 8 and 9 dpo. The nose bleed on 8 dpo made me test like a crazy woman and it was a bfn of course, but the nose bleed again on 9 dpo made me test again and it was a super faint bfp! Today I have a bit of a backache and cramps and it feels like AF is coming, which I know is normal, but it has me a little nervous. My boobs starting feeling full and sore today.
Telling H: I haven't yet! With the cp in Dec. DH didn't believe the squinters (he even said, I don't think you were ever pregnant, which was really hurtful), and I didn't want to put him through that confusion again so I was waiting until today to test again, hoping it'd be darker and I would tell him. I even bought a digital to show him. I chickened out with the digital this morning because I was super scared of a bfn (also had a dream last night that the digital was bfn), but the FRER was definitely darker. BUT this morning he was so zonked from morphine from surgery that I didn't tell him. I will tell him tonight or maybe take the digital tomorrow morning and tell him. I probably won't do anything special.
I haven't decided yet whether I should run to the doctor for betas, or just let what will be, be. With my cp I was freaking out and running for betas and ultrasounds and it just caused stress and confusion and ended in a loss anyway. I have no reason to suspect anything is wrong this time, and that has me feeling more confident, but my first loss was discovered at 13+ weeks, so it will be a while before I'll let myself get really excited.
CD/DPO: 25/11
EDD: Dec. 1, 2014 - exactly 8 months after my first loss edd of April 1.
Timing: -2 and O
What we did: I've been doing acupuncture since the end of December. Green tea before O. Sent DD for a sleepover at the ILs on what turned out to be O-2. I went to the spa that afternoon and DH and I went out for Thai. My boss told me after my second loss to "just relax" so it must have been the spa that did the trick (in case you missed it, sarcasm). I happened to have a pineapple so I ate the core and all after O.
Symptoms: Some weird cramps on 5 and 6 dpo. Nose bleed on 8 and 9 dpo. The nose bleed on 8 dpo made me test like a crazy woman and it was a bfn of course, but the nose bleed again on 9 dpo made me test again and it was a super faint bfp! Today I have a bit of a backache and cramps and it feels like AF is coming, which I know is normal, but it has me a little nervous. My boobs starting feeling full and sore today.
Telling H: I haven't yet! With the cp in Dec. DH didn't believe the squinters (he even said, I don't think you were ever pregnant, which was really hurtful), and I didn't want to put him through that confusion again so I was waiting until today to test again, hoping it'd be darker and I would tell him. I even bought a digital to show him. I chickened out with the digital this morning because I was super scared of a bfn (also had a dream last night that the digital was bfn), but the FRER was definitely darker. BUT this morning he was so zonked from morphine from surgery that I didn't tell him. I will tell him tonight or maybe take the digital tomorrow morning and tell him. I probably won't do anything special.
I haven't decided yet whether I should run to the doctor for betas, or just let what will be, be. With my cp I was freaking out and running for betas and ultrasounds and it just caused stress and confusion and ended in a loss anyway. I have no reason to suspect anything is wrong this time, and that has me feeling more confident, but my first loss was discovered at 13+ weeks, so it will be a while before I'll let myself get really excited.
All the mushy stuff: You ladies have always welcomed me back, but I honestly hope I'm never back here ttc. Unless we decide to have a third. I know I haven't been super active on the main board as work has been keeping me from spending hours on TB following insane UOs and FFFCs and other drama, but I have been pretty regular in the 2WW and W2O and will miss you all. I really hope the best for all of you and hope to see you on the other side soon.
Here is my 11dpo pee stick. Looks pretty good if you ask me:
bfp#4 3/19/2014 edd 12/1/2014 please let this be the one!
beta @ 5w0d = 12,026! u/s 4/22/14 @ 8w1d it's twins!
This discussion has been closed.
Re: Here I go again... (BFP)
First u/s 4-21-14, Baby G has a heartbeat! 112BPM
Second u/s 5-1-14 140BPM | Third u/s 5-3-14 168BPM
Rainbow Baby! BFP 02/20/2018 EDD 11/01/2018
BFP 10/31/2017 EDD 07/09/2018 Miscarriage 11/28/2017
DD # 1: BFP 5/22/2014 EDD 1/30/2015 Born 02/06/2015
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
Me: 28 H: 28 DS: 4
Trinitrotoluene: "My ears have been deflowered ....my mouth just hasn't been!"
BFP 9/27/13 - Natural MC 10/6/13
April 2014 IUI #1 - Femara + Ovidrel + Crinone = BFP! EDD 1/1/15
ME: 29 DH:29
TTC #1 since September 2013
BFP Aug 27 2014, EDD- May 9 2015 - MMC Oct 16 2014
BFP #1 11/28/09 ~ EDD 8/6/10 ~ DS Born 8/9/10
BFP #2 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/8/14 ~ Natural MC 9/18/13 at 6 weeks, 6 days
BFP#3 3/28/14 ~ EDD 12/7/14 ~ DD Born 11/21/14
BFP#4 6/15/17 ~ EDD 2/20/18
I hope the next 9 months go smoothly and perfectly for you!
BFP 3/30/14.
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
BFP 6/15/14 EDD: 2/24/15
"It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live."
Summer Dog/Winter Dog D14 AUG. SIGGY CHALLENGE: TEEN CRUSH- LEO
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed