I just got the call from my RE's nurse - BFN. We are devastated - we really thought it worked this time - esp since I haven't been sleeping well and today I was a little nauseous. Now I realize it is from the anxiety.
Waiting to hear when they can fit us in to see RE for WTF and next steps (FET). The scheduler said the earliest she had was 3/31 - I told them the nurse told me I should be able to get in sooner so they are checking.
Wishing all of you ladies happier outcomes this month. Sending you all lots of hugs for all your support.
So sorry to hear this outcome. We all understand the sadness and suffer with you.
I hope you get some answers at your WTF appt. I see that you were able to freeze 5 blasts from this cycle, so I hope that can give you a little peace and comfort.
<<<Hugs>>>
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN IVF #1: 10/16/13 ...BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks. IVF #2:Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss. IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing. IVF #3: June '14 ...Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested. Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
Since you are unexplained for IF and have transferred high grade embryos multiple times, it may be time for a second opinion, preferably someone with a different approach.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11.
2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do
"shared" program.
Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months.
Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012 Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix. - poor responder ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms FET 5/20- BFP 1st Beta- 641 2nd beta- 2166 Sono- TWINS!!!! Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
Thank you ladies. We are seeing our RE on Weds where I hope to get some answers - specifically I need to understand why this isn't happening for us. EVERYTHING checking out completely normal and then some for DH and I (other than my age of course). The 3 IUIs failing I could sort of accept/understand since the success rates are not that high. The first failed IVF I thought, ok, maybe this was just a practice run. But now, for this to not work makes no sense to me.
@annalisel - yes, I am wondering if we need to get a second opinion but want to see what my RE says first.
DH's travel / work schedule is insane this next month and I just need to get away right now. My parents are going on a trip so I am going to join them - will be good for me to get away from this for a few days at the end of next week (and since the job market is dead for what I am looking for, might as well take advantage of this time I have free). So if I go radio silent, it is just because I am away. Thank you all!
Re: Just got the call from RE - BFN
I really hope they can move up your appointment. Hugs to you.
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome
I hope you get some answers at your WTF appt. I see that you were able to freeze 5 blasts from this cycle, so I hope that can give you a little peace and comfort.
<<<Hugs>>>
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
Me: 40 DH: 38
TTC since November 2012
Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
My Ovulation Chart
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
f/k/a/ Kari3629
Me: 40/DH: 34
Unexplained IF
IVF #1 - 9/2013 8ER/5M/4EF/4ET = BFN
IVF #2 - 2/2014 - Fingers crossed this is the one!
4ER/3EF/3 "beautiful embryos" transferred - Beta March 7 = BFN
Everyone Welcome!