@Sooner1981If you have a minute, would you be able to help me find if there are any scientific articles on why the "no tv before 2" recommendation is in place.
I looked, but find mostly opinion articles.
FTR...I'm not asking for me. We followed it pretty closely with dd1 and plan to do it with dd2 even though I think it will be much harder this time. I'm asking for a friend who is on a board that thinks it's stupid but has absolutely zero research to support their opinions. So if possible, I'd like to sooner them.
Re: Sooner - I need your mad scientific research skills if you have sec
I've looked for articles too and have not found a lot. DH and I are in a debate about this because he is a tv addict and I don't let him watch while the girls are in the room.
That said, my husband and I read all the studies and papers on the subject, and then did kinda a "modified" approach. Not saying this is good or bad--just that this is what we have done.
We watched shows like HGTV and regular tv shows when the kids were babies. We didn't watch action movies, horror films or anything where there are tons of cut aways, sudden booms, basically anything jarring or super special effect filled. If the tv program is like cooking shows, hgtv and that kind of stuff, our reasoning was that those kinds of shows just basically are the same as exposing your kids to the grocery store environment or target. It is just "normal" noises and scenes.
We never turned on cartoons or any "kids" movies, so our daughter doesn't associate the tv with something super "fun" that she wants to pay attention to. But sometimes on long weekend days cooped up inside, I have found that I need a little bit of background noise while playing blocks or puzzles!
When our 2 year old was about 22 months, I started letting her watch PBS or sprout while she was sitting on the potty. Our pediatrician said to make toilet training fun, and I had just had our October baby, so that was the best I could do for fun. She seems to like it--but doesn't care when I turn it off after she pees. Also, we just showed her some parts of finding nemo the other night because she is completely obsessed with all things fish these days. She was so happy and loved watching the fish talk.
We also did YouTube clips of random animals from about 15 months forward and started limited access to kid apps on the iPad when we were taking a 12 hour car trip to Colorado last month--we brought a million books and activities also, but when it gets dark at 5:30 and we still have 3 hours to kill before bedtime, there are only so many nursery rhymes you can sing!!
I think that is what we will keep doing as we go forward. Tv in moderation, but not totally banned. The literature is definitely compelling that tv before 2 doesn't "help" anything. And it is compelling that lots of exposure to super amped up exciting TV can lead to attention problems later on. But even if you do zero TV with your first kid, your next one may be exposed to a little when your older one is 3 and 4, so I think this is one of those areas that is just up to each parent to decide...
https://www.ted.com/talks/patricia_kuhl_the_linguistic_genius_of_babies.html
It reviews a huge amount of pertinent research to answer questions about whether babies/children understand what they see, whether they can pick up on the emotions even if they can't understand it, whether learning TV actually results in learning (and if so, when), whether background noise TV interferes with language learning, etc--and I'm only 40% through the book so far. Strongly recommend.
I sent her the link. She actually ended up posting 2 different aap links. And I think she did it in an un-antagonistic way.
The book I mentioned went through compelling evidence (multiple large studies) of this. Said at least this topic is black and white.
And thanks for all the good info everyone!