So I'm a little annoyed...although I kinda understand. Two of my best friends from HS have been dealing with IF. One got pregnant last year through IVF, and she is my go-to person for support and questions. The other friend has been a good shoulder to lean on, as well. But she has been more sensitive, so we are always keen to talk about things too much unless she seems in good spirits. Even with all that, we text each other routinely (we live in different cities) to update on what treatment we were doing, if we got a BFN, etc. We did our injects cycle around the same time (she was 2 wks behind me). I told her I got a BFN, but she never told me what happened...I figured it was BFN and she didn't want to talk about it. Kinda weird she didn't text me for a while, but between treatments, she would often take breaks to emotionally heal.
Well of course on lovely Facebook, I see today that she's expecting twin girls. She didn't post it - it was one of her friends, posting pics of the gender reveal party. So I can't be too annoyed b/c I know she stopped going on FB a while back b/c it was too hard for her. Still...with all the stuff I shared with her, a text or something would have been good. Even if she doesn't get on FB, she knows I still do and she had to figure I'd see something at some point. Our other friend didn't know, either.
Anyways, I know she's been emotional through the whole thing and doesn't want to go on and on about it. And she may have not wanted to tell me initially due to my BFN, and then forgot to update me as time passed. But like I said, I simple text does wonders! That's all - just had to vent it out!
Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
Camila Josephine arrived 4/30