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Decided to wait :(

luckyangelluckyangel member
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Well DH and I had a big talk last night and decided that it probably will be best if we wait until my cycle in July to ttc again.

Its bittersweet.  We have a family trip to Disney planned in early July with my mom and dad (dad was diagnosed with a form of leukemia this past year) and the stepkids who have only been out of the state of Illinois to visit family in Indiana!  I would hate to have m/s or anything like that and ruin the trip.  It also means I get my spring time baby and dont have to drag an infant out into the cold 4 times/day which I really didn't want to do. 

I am trying to look at the positives like, by the time the stepkids go back to school the baby will be 4 mo and really interacting with me and I will have all day alone with the baby to play, etc.  Its just hard because we were going to try again right away and July seems a long way off.  The whole waiting was my idea, so can't complain.  Just kinda sucky.

Ok Done Venting!

accordingtoabby.com" "From of suffering emerges the strongest souls. The most massive characters are seared with scars." Kahlil Gibran
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Re: Decided to wait :(

  • KatieLMKatieLM
    Sorry you need to wait but it sounds like you have some good reasons and it also sounds like you are able to see the silver lining. Good luck :)
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  • sherron and troysherron and troy
    Just stay focused on the positives and the time will fly by so fast for you!! BTW - I'm jealous, never been to Disney! Imagine how much fun you, YH and SKs will have.
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  • alwyzbsyalwyzbsy

    imagesherron and troy:
    Just stay focused on the positives and the time will fly by so fast for you!! BTW - I'm jealous, never been to Disney! Imagine how much fun you, YH and SKs will have.
     

    I agree and am jealous too about going to Disney, haven't been yet.

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  • luckyangelluckyangel member
    I haven't been there since I was a little kid.  Its going to be a blast!  We're doing 5 days at Disney and 4 at the beach just outside of Tampa.  My parents are going to watch the kids 2 nights (one night when we're at Disney and one night at the beach) so we can have date nights.  Maybe we will ttc at the beach! 
    accordingtoabby.com" "From of suffering emerges the strongest souls. The most massive characters are seared with scars." Kahlil Gibran
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  • pentagrlpentagrl

    imageluckyangel:
    I haven't been there since I was a little kid.  Its going to be a blast!  We're doing 5 days at Disney and 4 at the beach just outside of Tampa.  My parents are going to watch the kids 2 nights (one night when we're at Disney and one night at the beach) so we can have date nights.  Maybe we will ttc at the beach! 

    I'm sooooo jealous!! date night on the beach is so super romantic, FWP or not! and i'm sure once you get caught up in the planning and then the packing time will fly!

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