We have always said that we would not find out what our baby was at U/S.
We just found out that his cousins are both expecting. So there will be 3 babies in 4 weeks! At dinner tonight, the cousins both said they are going to find out. Now my husband says he wants to know. He is serious and I am ticked. I don't think I want to know and I don't want to feel pressure to find out. He is serious and I am ticked! Sorry just had to vent for a few.
Re: My husband changed the rules on me!
I want to not get mad too and think that too, that we will wait and see. But he is so focused on it and if his cousins are there reminding him it is going to be an uphill struggle. Yikes, glad to know I am not alone in this struggle.:)
Last year I was pregnant with two of my sisters. Only one of us found out what we were having. Myself and my other sister did not. I must admit for me between the two of them I was more excited for the one that didn't find out because we didn't have any idea WHO was coming! Both were exciting...but there is an extra thrill. I also did not find out for my first and won't be finding out for this one either. It's so much more exciting this way!
Don't get me wrong it gets stressful near the end when the whole family is hounding you to find out and you just want to buy boy or girl stuff already! But it is SOOO worth it to hear "It's a __!" So worth it.
You still have time to talk to him and maybe get him to change his mind and see your point of view.
DS was a surprise as will be #2 - it was fun finding out that day...especially, while I was pushing and my MW was telling me: "I see his or her hair, c'mon, PUSH!!" LOL.
aww there is definitely time to hash it out- i just found out dh does not want to know the sex and i have always wanted to know right away! so this put a damper in my christmas (when i found out lol) but in any case- i will find out and keep it to myself if it comes down to that- i want to respect his wishes but i don't want to give in on what i want either- it's only fair- why not have it both ways?