Hello! I've never posted on this board but thought this would be the best place to get an answer.
I have 2 DDs, the first we had two big showers, that I did not plan or ask for, one thrown by my side of the family and one by DHs. The second we had a 'get together' with all of our close friends and family where everyone just got together to celebrate another baby and enjoy each others company, we didn't make a registry and gifts were not involved. Our oldest is 3, youngest is 1.
Now DH and I are expecting a boy in July. I would never ask for a shower or sprinkle or anything else, or expect any of that, but I'm not sure how it works/what etiquette is for different genders. I don't want to buy a ton of things and then have someone throw me a shower but I also don't want to wait and see if someone throws a shower, only to have a month to get things we need.
I'm honestly just confused about it all and wanted some advice. Thanks for reading and for any help!