:::ariellazanz:::

MissMcCauley

I sent you a PM

*Bee*

What, MM!?!  You sent her a frickin' PM!?  Well that sounds like the mature way to handle things.  And you quite obviously are not mature enough for thinking like that, so it must be a lie!!

ariellazanz

not sure how to retrieve those, sorry. but you could tell me whatever it is here.

kit4485

oh snap bracelet!

stacialynn

MissMcCauley:

I sent you a PM

oh, come on! share! 

kit4485

ariellazanz:

not sure how to retrieve those, sorry. but you could tell me whatever it is here.

you do so you big leaguer from the nest. ?

bat stafuny

"my bump"  "dashboard" "my friends"  "messages"

now, that's how you handle a situation with class, mack.

stacialynn

ariellazanz:

not sure how to retrieve those, sorry. but you could tell me whatever it is here.

acting dumb does not fly here

bannedmonkey

ariellazanz:

not sure how to retrieve those, sorry. but you could tell me whatever it is here.

Sounds like a C&P is in order.

ariellazanz

kit, reading comprehension is your friend. i said i was an old school knottie...as from, several years ago. this entire format is new to me, dingbat.

Abc15379

ariellazanz:

not sure how to retrieve those, sorry. but you could tell me whatever it is here.

Yeah, keep playing it off like you are new, when you are clearly some pusss ass AE who can't show her face. FAIL. 

kit4485

ariellazanz:

kit, reading comprehension is your friend. i said i was an old school knottie...as from, several years ago. this entire format is new to me, dingbat.

dingbat ::snorts:: oh right. sorryaboutme.

stacialynn

ariellazanz:

kit, reading comprehension is your friend. i said i was an old school knottie...as from, several years ago. this entire format is new to me, dingbat.

so who's the dingbat?

*Bee*

ariellazanz:

kit, reading comprehension is your friend. i said i was an old school knottie...as from, several years ago. this entire format is new to me, dingbat.

It's hard to have good reading comprehension skills when the text makes no sense.

And I love how you keep proving yourself more and more immature when that is what you came on here to complain about in the first place.  Dingbat.... 

MissMcCauley

Were you able to find the message Ariellazanz? If not let me know, and I'll try to tell you how to get there.

stacialynn

MissMcCauley:

Were you able to find the message Ariellazanz? If not let me know, and I'll try to tell you how to get there.

while you're at it, tell her where to put it, too!

bat stafuny

ariellazanz:

kit, reading comprehension is your friend. i said i was an old school knottie...as from, several years ago. this entire format is new to me, dingbat.

why. are. you. still. here?

ariellazanz

okay, i read it. thanks for the instructions.

mccauley, you don't have to apologize. you never did anything to me specifically to hurt me. but i have observed you in the last few weeks i've been lurking act like a snotty little brat to every random new poster who days something you consider questionable (even when it's totally innocent and really not a big deal). i get that being snarky wins you cool points, and i get that you want to fit in. but man, there are women here who are really looking for advice and yeah, a lot of them don't lurk before they post. BIG FVCKING DEAL. cut them some slack. i KNOW you are not the only one who does this, but i do think that your approach is particularly bitchy and you just stood out to me. i had to call you out because...come on. there are some aspects of your story that are pretty flameworthy (at least by my standards, apparently not everyone else's).

i'm sure you're a nice person with a good heart, and i'm sure that you don't mean to be hurtful when you make fun of random people who come post here for guidance, but stop being such a little biitch. seriously. i'm sure most of the newbs that you rip on get over it and brush it off, but you never know how people are going to react and how they are going to take it. and you should know how hard this whole TTC process can be for a lot of women.

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

Mrs.Foreste

Wow. ?Now you're not only pulling out the age card, but RELAX too? ?I think that shows immaturity if anything.

bat stafuny

AZ:  why didn't you pm her back?  what's with the need for attention?

in all honesty, Miss Mack says nothing more than anyone else.. only in a more humorous way.  she has a cooky sense of humor and is highly sarcastic.  not biitchy.  and there are some biitchy folks 'round here, obviously, including yourself.  glad you had your fun and feel good about yourself, so go.   shoo.

*Bee*

ariellazanz:

okay, i read it. thanks for the instructions.

mccauley, you don't have to apologize. you never did anything to me specifically to hurt me. but i have observed you in the last few weeks i've been lurking act like a snotty little brat to every random new poster who days something you consider questionable (even when it's totally innocent and really not a big deal). i get that being snarky wins you cool points, and i get that you want to fit in. but man, there are women here who are really looking for advice and yeah, a lot of them don't lurk before they post. BIG FVCKING DEAL. cut them some slack. i KNOW you are not the only one who does this, but i do think that your approach is particularly bitchy and you just stood out to me. i had to call you out because...come on. there are some aspects of your story that are pretty flameworthy (at least by my standards, apparently not everyone else's).

i'm sure you're a nice person with a good heart, and i'm sure that you don't mean to be hurtful when you make fun of random people who come post here for guidance, but stop being such a little biitch. seriously. i'm sure most of the newbs that you rip on get over it and brush it off, but you never know how people are going to react and how they are going to take it. and you should know how hard this whole TTC process can be for a lot of women.

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

Um...if she had the decency to send you a pm and handle this in private, give her the same respect.  Wow, you really are a winner! 

Abc15379

ariellazanz:

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

Whoooooa. Ok, I totally agreed with and understood where you were coming from UNTIL this part. Who the fucck are you to tell her to relax and take her time with TTC. That is NONE of your business. You are just digging yourself deeper and deeper. You really need to FOAD. 

Carrie50

ariellazanz:

okay, i read it. thanks for the instructions.

mccauley, you don't have to apologize. you never did anything to me specifically to hurt me. but i have observed you in the last few weeks i've been lurking act like a snotty little brat to every random new poster who days something you consider questionable (even when it's totally innocent and really not a big deal). i get that being snarky wins you cool points, and i get that you want to fit in. but man, there are women here who are really looking for advice and yeah, a lot of them don't lurk before they post. BIG FVCKING DEAL. cut them some slack. i KNOW you are not the only one who does this, but i do think that your approach is particularly bitchy and you just stood out to me. i had to call you out because...come on. there are some aspects of your story that are pretty flameworthy (at least by my standards, apparently not everyone else's).

i'm sure you're a nice person with a good heart, and i'm sure that you don't mean to be hurtful when you make fun of random people who come post here for guidance, but stop being such a little biitch. seriously. i'm sure most of the newbs that you rip on get over it and brush it off, but you never know how people are going to react and how they are going to take it. and you should know how hard this whole TTC process can be for a lot of women.

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

There is a "reply" button for PMs. 

ariellazanz

"Ok, I totally agreed with and understood where you were coming from UNTIL this part."

please elaborate...what did you agree with and understand? could it be that i am possibly starting to detect intelligent life?

and i put here because i'm not down with that "PM" nonsense. not to mention how many of you were foaming at the mouth to find out what she wrote to me...figured i'd indulge you all and keep it public.

mommyof2texans

Abc15379:

ariellazanz:

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

Whoooooa. Ok, I totally agreed with and understood where you were coming from UNTIL this part. Who the fucck are you to tell her to relax and take her time with TTC. That is NONE of your business. You are just digging yourself deeper and deeper. You really need to FOAD. 

I have to agree with you on this one ABC....when you want something so badly and it doesn't happen, the last thing you want to hear is that its God's will or that things happen for a reason...

ScarletandGray

Can I laugh? PLEASE?!?!?! This woman screams that McCauley is immature, but yet she is the one to handle this privately and from what I read to even apologize. While ole wise mature owl has nothing better to do than ridicule her publicly and not even back down once said apology was given (necessary or not). Don't you love how actions speak louder than words McCauley!

kit4485

yeah abc, she's not down with PM's-she's 34.

Abc15379

I understand that you want to defend newbs who don't lurk enough, and who don't know what not to say in order to prevent being snarked at. I get that. But, that's where it ends. I'm still shocked that you called McCauley out, of all people. And I'm shocked that you're bothering to post and invest so much time in a board that by your definition "sucks". Are you SURE you're 34?

kit4485

ariellazanz:

"Ok, I totally agreed with and understood where you were coming from UNTIL this part."

please elaborate...what did you agree with and understand? could it be that i am possibly starting to detect intelligent life?

and i put here because i'm not down with that "PM" nonsense. not to mention how many of you were foaming at the mouth to find out what she wrote to me...figured i'd indulge you all and keep it public.

did you really just "detect intelligent life "?

ariellazanz

yeah abc. come on. i can barely even make out this 10 pt. font, bifocals on and all.

Jenn30

I'm in my early 30s and would never have chosen to have a baby at 21, but I find your tone and the content of your posts highly offensive.  First, you can't seem to decide what you're arguing against--asserting that someone is snarky is one thing (though as someone who has mostly lurked and sometimes posted on GP for 6 months, I have no idea why you'd single out MrsM), but you keep veering from that to bring in her age, how long she's been married, how long she's been trying, etc.  Your arguments are all over the place.  At least try to be consistent. 

Furthermore, attacking one particular person on this board who has done nothing to you, without being at all specific, and asking everyone else to gang up on her reeks of cruel high school behavior--exactly what you're accusing her of (with no evidence).  

Obviously none of us can make you leave, but you might want to ask yourself what you're trying to accomplish here, because really, I have no idea.

kit4485

Jenn30:

I'm in my early 30s and would never have chosen to have a baby at 21, but I find your tone and the content of your posts highly offensive.? First, you can't seem to decide what you're arguing against--asserting that someone is snarky is one thing (though as someone who has mostly lurked and sometimes posted on GP for 6 months, I have no idea why you'd single out MrsM), but you keep veering from that to bring in her age, how long she's been married, how long she's been trying, etc.? Your arguments are all over the place.? At least try to be consistent.?

Furthermore, attacking one particular person on this board who has done nothing to you, without being at all specific, and asking everyone else to gang up on her reeks of cruel high school behavior--exactly what you're accusing her of (with no evidence). ?

Obviously none of us can make you leave, but you might want to ask yourself what you're trying to accomplish here, because really, I have no idea.

she has a "mature" brain and probably some memory loss with age. that explains it.?

ariellazanz

ughhhhh jenn. try to keep up. i think i already clarified in my OP that i am NOT asking everyone else to gang up on her. and, for the fourtrillionth time, i chose to call her out because A) i find her particularly obnoxious, her snark stands out as being particularly vicious and unwarranted and C) (and here's the kicker) she herself has plenty going on that *I* (and apparently I stand alone here) find flameworthy. i'm really not trying to "accomplish" anything here. mccauley was really annoying me and i decided to call her out. end of story.

MissMcCauley

ariellazanz:

okay, i read it. thanks for the instructions.

mccauley, you don't have to apologize. you never did anything to me specifically to hurt me. but i have observed you in the last few weeks i've been lurking act like a snotty little brat to every random new poster who days something you consider questionable (even when it's totally innocent and really not a big deal). i get that being snarky wins you cool points, and i get that you want to fit in. but man, there are women here who are really looking for advice and yeah, a lot of them don't lurk before they post. BIG FVCKING DEAL. cut them some slack. i KNOW you are not the only one who does this, but i do think that your approach is particularly bitchy and you just stood out to me. i had to call you out because...come on. there are some aspects of your story that are pretty flameworthy (at least by my standards, apparently not everyone else's).

i'm sure you're a nice person with a good heart, and i'm sure that you don't mean to be hurtful when you make fun of random people who come post here for guidance, but stop being such a little biitch. seriously. i'm sure most of the newbs that you rip on get over it and brush it off, but you never know how people are going to react and how they are going to take it. and you should know how hard this whole TTC process can be for a lot of women.

about your age...sure, 21 can be, in some cases, grown up and mature enough to handle major life decisions and the act of being a parent. but you haven't exactly been the role model of maturity based on some of your posts. just relax. 21 is still so young, and i understand that you want a baby NOW, but if it doesn't happen right away, you still have plenty of time. enjoy being a newleywed, enjoy your time of having your husband to yourself. once you have a baby, you can't get that back and it will never be just the two of you again. TTC by all means if you want to, but don't stress if it's not happening right away. it will happen for you guys, whether it's sooner or later. and if it's later, maybe that's just god's way of telling you to slow down and smell the roses. best of luck to you and your husband...i hope things work out.

I responded to this in a PM - YGM

Mrs.Foreste

Jenn30:

I'm in my early 30s and would never have chosen to have a baby at 21, but I find your tone and the content of your posts highly offensive.? First, you can't seem to decide what you're arguing against--asserting that someone is snarky is one thing (though as someone who has mostly lurked and sometimes posted on GP for 6 months, I have no idea why you'd single out MrsM), but you keep veering from that to bring in her age, how long she's been married, how long she's been trying, etc.? Your arguments are all over the place.? At least try to be consistent.?

Furthermore, attacking one particular person on this board who has done nothing to you, without being at all specific, and asking everyone else to gang up on her reeks of cruel high school behavior--exactly what you're accusing her of (with no evidence). ?

Obviously none of us can make you leave, but you might want to ask yourself what you're trying to accomplish here, because really, I have no idea.

I couldn't have said it better myself. ?I'm 21... 22 in a few weeks & I've only been married since May. ?I guess I'm "flame worthy" too since I'm obviously not as ready as you are to bring a baby into the world.?

Mrs.Foreste

MissMcCauley:

ariellazanz:

I responded to this in a PM - YGM

Once again... who is the mature person??

firsttogo

I have been ready for a baby since 20ish. . . I do not find fault with that at all.. 

skinnursemandee

wow, Im a little late on this but WOW AZ is a total cvntbag!! Holy crap get your wisdom stick out of your ass for a second and realize that no matter what you say or do is not going to change everyones opinion that you are the obnoxious asss around here.

Who the fck called you the "maturity police"? Seriously, you took it upon yourself to call her out, for what? Because she is 21 and has her life together? Are you jealous because her eggs are still fresh and yours are nearing their expiration date?

Seriously, get a grip on your own life before you come here and attempt to say shiit to anyone in here. So back off, if you want to talk to someone your own age come and talk to me!

Now if you have any self respect left you would log onto your "real" name and say this shiit up front since obviously this lurking for weeks shhiiit cant happen on a name that was made today. So why hide?