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September Mama's Come In (salsawifey)

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I want to know how many of us their are so far. The streak was going so crazy I lost track.

Have you introduced yourself at Pregnant AL?  I haven't yet. I know that not everyone over there has rainbow babies. What's the etiquette? Should I change my profile pic? I don't want to upset or offend anyone.

Are you having beta's drawn? Did you schedule your first appt?

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[/RA with Sjogren's Syndrome. Risk of heart block in newborn. Age: DH and I are both 38.
BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014. 2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    Hello September moms! I did do a brief intro on PGAL. There was a post on here about it not too long ago and their welcoming was warm. Not sure how much I will post there or post here more since there are quite a few of us and Julymomma2u2 started a check in here. :) no betas but an early u/s next Monday which I'm already starting to freak out about. Really praying for a healthy baby. First appt is Feb 12 at 8 weeks.
    It is very exciting how many and how close we are due! Praying for all healthy pregnancies for all of us!

    TTC since 7/10, BFP#1~6/28/11(4wks2d)~EDD 3/4/12, missed m/c(8wks)~8/12/11, D&C~8/16/11
    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

    BFP#3~1/12/14~EDD 9/23/14, Found out baby is a girl!~4/18/14 :)

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  • ksyknelvr73ksyknelvr73 member
    I don't think PGAL is as concerned with pictures as TTCAL would be. I spent a few months on TTCAL before this pregnancy, so I removed all my pictures but left my ticker, and I just haven't changed it back and probably won't. I know that tickers are fine on PGAL for sure. Some people have pics, some don't, but I have never seen it be an issue on PGAL.
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    @annarussell05- aww yay! Lots of T&P for great ultrasounds :)

    TTC since 7/10, BFP#1~6/28/11(4wks2d)~EDD 3/4/12, missed m/c(8wks)~8/12/11, D&C~8/16/11
    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

    BFP#3~1/12/14~EDD 9/23/14, Found out baby is a girl!~4/18/14 :)

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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    I did intro over at PGAL, and didn't change anything. I recall there being a number of STMs on there when I was there the first time, and there wasn't any etiquette surrounding not sharing/showing stuff about their older LO. If there is, I'm not familiar with it, and nobody called me on it.

    I'm having betas drawn on 27 January. I'm a nervous wreck and having a lot of unpleasant feelings about this pregnancy, which I know is bad and unfair. I can't even worry about first trimester PGAL stuff. I'm now too worried about money, space, feelings, everything, trying to take deep breaths and know that things will be okay.
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member
    I didn't intro on PGAL.. I always felt off going there after I had my first rainbow.. And now I have 2, so I feel even more out of place.. I've been lurking on sep14.
    Loss #1: 18w5d.. D&E 04Mar03 BFP #2: Jun2011.. missed miscarriage. D&C 08Jul2011 8w4d. BFP #3: Nov2011.. Our Rainbow Baby!!! DS Born: 15Jul2012! BFP #4: Nov2012.. 2U1 - DS2 born 12Jul2013.  BFP #5: 01Jan2014..3U3!!

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  • cmumamacmumama member
    Hi!!

    I didn't do an intro on pgal. I'm on too many boards already. :). I'm on S12 and S14 as well as here.

    My first appt isn't until 2/14. I decided on not doing betas this time around. I'm anxious for my appt. it seems so far away. I have no symptoms at all. I wish something would make me feel pregnant! (Gotta be careful what I wish for!). EDD is 9/22 based on LMP.

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    RusalkaSings said:

    I did intro over at PGAL, and didn't change anything. I recall there being a number of STMs on there when I was there the first time, and there wasn't any etiquette surrounding not sharing/showing stuff about their older LO. If there is, I'm not familiar with it, and nobody called me on it.


    I'm having betas drawn on 27 January. I'm a nervous wreck and having a lot of unpleasant feelings about this pregnancy, which I know is bad and unfair. I can't even worry about first trimester PGAL stuff. I'm now too worried about money, space, feelings, everything, trying to take deep breaths and know that things will be okay.
    I'm having similar feelings. Worried about money, managing 3 kids, how DS2 will handle no longer being the baby.
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  • salsa_wifeysalsa_wifey member
    cmumama said:
    Hi!! I didn't do an intro on pgal. I'm on too many boards already. :). I'm on S12 and S14 as well as here. My first appt isn't until 2/14. I decided on not doing betas this time around. I'm anxious for my appt. it seems so far away. I have no symptoms at all. I wish something would make me feel pregnant! (Gotta be careful what I wish for!). EDD is 9/22 based on LMP.
    We are due date buddies!!

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    [img]http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ticker/43ff7d/ttc.png[/img]
    [/    RA with Sjogren's Syndrome. Risk of heart block in newborn. Age: DH and I are both 38.
    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014.     2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    cmumama said:
    I did intro over at PGAL, and didn't change anything. I recall there being a number of STMs on there when I was there the first time, and there wasn't any etiquette surrounding not sharing/showing stuff about their older LO. If there is, I'm not familiar with it, and nobody called me on it.

    I'm having betas drawn on 27 January. I'm a nervous wreck and having a lot of unpleasant feelings about this pregnancy, which I know is bad and unfair. I can't even worry about first trimester PGAL stuff. I'm now too worried about money, space, feelings, everything, trying to take deep breaths and know that things will be okay.
    I'm having similar feelings. Worried about money, managing 3 kids, how DS2 will handle no longer being the baby.
    DH and I are just in a weird spot. We've been thinking about selling our house, he's been thinking about looking for a new job or going back to school, I've just returned to work so my student loans can come out of deferment... and a new baby is a good thing, and I know ultimately we can handle it, it's just a lot to process all at once. 
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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    Congrats @sweetturnip. I'm so happy to read all of these posts! :)

    TTC since 7/10, BFP#1~6/28/11(4wks2d)~EDD 3/4/12, missed m/c(8wks)~8/12/11, D&C~8/16/11
    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

    BFP#3~1/12/14~EDD 9/23/14, Found out baby is a girl!~4/18/14 :)

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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    Heya, @sweetturnip! Congratulations and long time no see!!
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  • salsa_wifeysalsa_wifey member
    SweetTurnip!!!

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    [/    RA with Sjogren's Syndrome. Risk of heart block in newborn. Age: DH and I are both 38.
    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014.     2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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