Unfortunately LO is not only teething but has RSV. That explains the coughing, wheezing, irritability, lack of appetite. Obviously she is not going to Chicago.
My SMIL and FIL have offered to stay with L so we can attend the wedding. I am as comfortable leaving here with them as I would be with anyone. I know they will vigilantly watch her and FIL is a physician though not a pediatrician so he can handle any medical issues that might arise.
I am still not comfortable leaving a sick baby but I could not skip the wedding and this is the best solution.
TTC since 3-08
IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP
DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12