Help! My brother is getting married September 20. He has just put all of us siblings and our significant others in the wedding. Of course we want to stand up there for him on his big day. However, my husband and I just got the amazing news that we are pregnant after 6 months of trying! We are beyond excited! Our estimated due date is September 18. Soooo.... what should I do?! My brother expected me to be pregnant in his wedding, but not full term and due at the same time. The bride has already said every girl can get the dress of her own choice as long as all of the materials are the same (knowing I might be pregnant and growing). Do I just order a dress much larger and hope I can still be there or back out? If I back out, it throws everything off they have planned. I haven't told them yet. I am telling my parents this weekend to get their take on it too. My poor mother will have to decide (maybe) to be at her son's wedding or the birth of her grandchild. Oh the stress!