It is so annoying! If Im out and feel a cough or sneeze coming, I have to stop what Im doing and concentrate so I don't pee. Of course the cooler temperatures are making my asthma flare so I end up coughing hard and always let out a tiny sprinkle. I remember my mother being pregnant with my sisters and every time she sneezed you'd hear "DAMN IT"! LOL Had I only known I would one day be dealing with the same thing I would have not giggled so much when she did it. Years of kegels don't mean jack when you have a person on your bladder.