ttc I thought it was easier than this, this sucks y is it so hard

ttctytae

Its been a year since my myomectomy and no luck, I was told the surgery is like turning the soil you'll be pregnant in no time. Well time has flown so where's my baby or baby bump. Its been a full year and no baby. Mayb I want it too bad, because af started acting up in August so I thought oh mayb this it, the next month she came late , and didn't show at all in October all hpts neg went to obgyn he was confuse ran test and they came back saying I was post menopausal I found this out on my 34 birthday needless to say i was very depressed but it was short lived. I then read about concieve easy along with praying af showed mid November. Then i started monitoring my bbt. Any other suggestions ladies and support is also welcomed im new here and as you can tell I needed to vent sorry for the ramble

ttctytae

He was going to refer me to an RE but idnt want to go as yet i wanted to try something natural first. My LH was 85.2 my FSH was 65.4 TSH 0.782 my thyroid wasn't taken I only got these test because i insisted something wasn't right

ttctytae

I also thought the fluctuations could be to stress I didn't own up to. My dear aunt was suffering from ovarian cancer and she passed in September. I started concieve easy in mid November and af showed about 7 days later than it was due after about a 40days. Then mid December I broke out in a weird rash, in my research I found that happens when your hormones are adjusting so im hoping for the best and open to insite and advice

missmarypoppins

I second @rumbera28 you need to run to an RE. Do not let your obgyn waste anymore of your time. If your fsh is indeed 65.4, I think trying naturally could be futile. I feel like obgyns just make stabs in the dark at fertility problems. An RE will be able to give you a real diagnosis and will lay out all of your options for a path to baby. Good luck to you!

ttctytae

It was taken after about a month or more of no af

ttctytae

He was sending me to a RE, however I don't want to go into debt and risk not coming home with a baby. So I will not only b depressed about not having a baby but now having debt because of failing to produce a baby uggh I cringe just thinking about. When I say naturally I mean natural medcine herbs.

ttctytae

Im thinking of having them rechecked

Hopeful1029

Definitely see RE....but at the risk of being a shit for trying to add some sunshine, I found great hope in this woman's story....I happened upon her blog by mistake. She's 34, dx POF with hormone levels showing her to be POST menopausal....her determination and success story had me in tears as I read her complete blog from 01/13-12/13 in one night! Her blog is: My twinspirational journey. I'm so sorry for your struggle and heartache.

chickysue

For what it's worth...my RE made it clear that although she is part of an infertility center, there are several RE's that practice and just work on reproductive issues and hormonal variances without working on infertility. In her practice, it's also a fibroid center and one doctor only works on "abnormal growth" issues. They also have a PCOS center that both woman who are trying to conceive and women are not trying to conceive go to. I understand what you are saying about not wanting to talk about your fertility maybe and start treatment, but I think you should certainly take control of your health and see someone to figure out what is going on.

gracealone2014

I know this is an older post, but does anyone on here know if it is better to have your FSH tested in the morning or in the afternoon? Having mine done tomorrow and wondering if it matters when I go....I went in the early afternoon last time and it was a 7.6.