I am prob going to sound like a nut asking this (my husband already thinks I'm crazy), but here goes:
My cousin is getting married in February 2015. Yes, I know that's more than a YEAR away. I will be in the wedding and will have to travel 4 hours by plane to attend. My husband and I were casually going to start to TTC next month. I am not stupid and know that the odds of us getting pregnant right away are probably pretty slim but her wedding is constantly on my mind. If I am too pregnant for her wedding and can't travel or just had the baby, I would be absolutely heart broken, but I know I can't stop my life just because of one day. She just means a lot to me and I am really looking forward to her big day.
Would you put TTC on hold during the summer months to prevent being too pregnant or would you say f*ck it and just keep on going with your original plan? I know it could take a year, two years or never... so who the heck knows.
A part of me wants to just wait a year to TTC so I don't have to deal w/ this stress (I'm a very anxious person), but my husband told me I'm being ridiculous and that NO ONE plans their life around someone else's wedding. Am I being nutzo?