Job Change.... WWYD?

JulieSmiles

A little back story: I'm a special education teacher with a masters in Autism. I worked my first five years at a nice school district, but last year, a ton of things happened with the principal where he just wasn't treating people right, and I quit. I ended up finding a new teaching position in a small, low-income district about 35 minutes from my home. The people in the new district are not super friendly and the administration really limits what we are allowed to do, but it is still significantly better than last year.

Yesterday, a family friend went to my mom and told her a district close to my home was hiring a ton of special education teachers, especially for Autism rooms, and that I should apply right away. The district will be starting interviews in January so I would need to apply in the next few weeks. I'm torn on whether I should apply and interview or not. I don't want it to look like I'm a job-jumper, but being closer to home would be really nice. I have made some good friends at my new job, but I don't care for most of the people. IF i were to get the new job, I would have more freedom within my classroom and would be able to use my schooling more. I would make a good chunk more money at the new district, as well as save on gas money. If I got the job, I would not have a lot of days off next school year if my baby got sick. I also would lose a few days home with the baby and wouldn't really be able to take off at the beginning of the year if I needed it, where at my current job, I would be able to.

So, what would you do? Would you apply for the new job or just stay where you were? Do you think it would look bad to a potential employer if I switched schools this year and again next year?

TIA!

b48kate

I would apply. Even if you determine that you will not be accepting a position at this time, it is a very good chance to network and let the hiring management get to know you. If you are given an offer - and determine you can not take it for the reasons outlined above - you can discuss those reasons with the individual who presents you the offer. At that time I would reiterate that you would like to be considered for future positions. In my precious life I was a hiring manager (before career changing), and I would have loved to have had well-qualified, fully vetted candidates waiting in the wings to take positions as they arose!

Luna C

Apply. One short stint at a job isn't going to hurt you. It's people who NEVER stay at a job for more than a few months who look bad. 

But bear in mind FMLA issues that might impact your decision to take the job if you get it. It might be better as PPs mentioned to use this as a networking opp. and then hope to get a job there down the road. 

nunzchucks

I think it sounds like a great opportunity and that you should apply. One thing to think tho - are you ok teaching in or near where you live? My teacher friend who lives in her district hates it because she has had parents say rude things to her if she is out having a drink at dinner.

wtfisup

Job changes are normal now. I haven't stayed longer than two years at my last two jobs. Do what is best for you. I have never cared that much about longevity when hiring. People know that folks have reasons to leave.

amackattack

Don't deprive yourself of all of these benefits just because you feel guilty and are worried how it might look...you have to do what's best for your family. It doesn't sound like a place you want to stay forever so you'll end up leaving eventually. There are so many people out there looking for jobs, I'm sure your position would be filled quickly so don't feel guilty about leaving.

babygabe614

I would absolutely apply. It sounds like the pros outweigh the cons significantly for you, so I'd go for it.

mjdavies

Apply and see what happens. If you get an offer, weigh the pros and cons. I think once the baby is here, having a shorter commute will be worth a lot to you. Ultimately, do what's right for you and your family. I always tell myself that I am the only person who can take charge of my career. Sounds like you are already doing that by quitting your last job so just keep doing what is best for you.

chaysefaith

I would apply. If it comes up why you're switching/looking for a new job in the interview process I think you have some GREAT, well thought out reasons and no one would fault you for those.

rmjones15

I would at least apply. You can always change your mind and withdraw the application. I've always had a little "chat" time before interviews where I've gone over my resume again and discussed anything that may look like weaknesses before the interview starts. Good luck!!

JulieSmiles

Thank you for all the opinions! I think a few of you really hit the nail on the head with how I'm feeling. I feel guilty, but I need to put myself and my family first. I think in my heart, I knew what I wanted to do. I will be updating my resume and applying.

katekat8721

Yay, I'm glad you're going for it! It does sound better in the long run. I know you could miss out on some time up front with baby, but being closer to baby ultimately will pay off... less commute time and if something does happen during the day you could be home quickly! FX for you sweets!

rileymiller

As a teacher myself, I would absolutely apply. Things are always changing always changing with education (as you know) so who knows, the school you're at now may not need you in a year...then what? On the job hunt. Plus, a short drive to work makes for a much happier teacher. I use to drive 45 min both ways...it was painful. Now my maybe 15 min drive each way is heaven!

shellbell813

Glad to hear that you are going for it. I taught at a school for a year and had a very difficult time with administration (literally, the opposite of support). I ended up going into a different field, but know I will be back in teaching eventually because that is where my heart is. 

I would be ready to defend your reasoning for changing jobs last year, and maybe explain that although your current school is great in many ways, that this new position would be much better for you and your family and that is why you are willing to leave after only a year. I wouldn't think that would be an issue to anyone!

MaidMarion25

I say go for it!

MrsCase1

I agree with everyone else. See if you even get hired before stressing over whether to accept. Besides, all the reasons for leaving are legit and I think a potential employer would understand if you were candid.

kjohnson1002

I agree with the others..its definitely worth it to apply.  You can always make your decision later if you are offered the job.

verydisgruntledpelican0091

I would apply and go from there. You seem like a very smart person and you will weigh your options appropriately. If you have a good support system available to help you in the event your baby is sick, then I think moving to the new school would be good.
Please comment and let us know what you decide to do

CherSomething

I would apply. What do you have to lose? If they hire you--they don't care that you've moved jobs already in the past year. If they don't hire you, you're no better or worse off than you are now.

puttyeast

I'm happy for you that you are going to go for it! It sounds like in the long run, you are going to happier at the closer district. I hope the application and interview process are successful for you!!