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Rough A/S tonight *Updated

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edited December 2013 in May 2014 Moms
18w with di/di twins and thrilled to find out that we are adding 2 more boys to our crew. I'm going to be sooo out numbered (DS is 2yo)
The doctor met with us afterwards to let us know there was an absence of a nasal bone in one of the boys on the 12w scan, which is a soft maker for downs. They are sending me for the materni21 test so I will have to wait a week to find out more.
I know there were threads earlier on this board of people experiencing soft markers a few weeks back, but cant seem to find in a search on my mobile. Just nervous and scared. I'm 100% sure we will be thrilled to have these little boys no matter what...but first the shock of twins, then to deal with this would be really difficult. Any words of hope would be wonderful.

* thank you for all the kind words and positive thoughts. After a week of making myself sick, no sleep and googling like crazy, my doctor just called (on Christmas Eve) to let me know my Mat21 came back negative and everything looks normal. so glad she called so we didn't have to be in limbo all thru the holiday.
Like I said, I would love this little munchkin no matter what, but surprise twins was already pretty daunting.

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Re: Rough A/S tonight *Updated

  • I have no advice, but lots of T&Ps coming your way.
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  • I'm so sorry. I know the wait will be hard until you have solid answers, but hang in there. Best of luck to you!

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  • I don't have any advise for you, just wanted to send you T&P! Hope the week goes by quickly for your Maternity21 results!
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  •  Congrats on 2 boys! Your house will be a loud, fun place to be! I hope you find some answers. My thoughts and prayers are with you while you wait it out. <3

    Just a question - did they not tell you about it at your 12 week scan and wait until this one? That gives me a whole new world of things to possible be anxious about.
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  • I'm so sorry you received this news. The last thing you need is this stress. I'll be thinking about you and hoping that both your babies are healthy. Please keep us updated.
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  • Sending prayers your way. Hope the blood work comes back quickly so you can have some answers .

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  • Congrats on your two little men :)

    I'm sorry you've been given cause to worry... I'll send some good thoughts, and I really hope everything turns out to be just fine.  Just wanted to add, though, that I actually have a friend with two little twin boys, one of whom has downs.  He's just the sweetest little guy.


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  • megangehr said:

     Congrats on 2 boys! Your house will be a loud, fun place to be! I hope you find some answers. My thoughts and prayers are with you while you wait it out. <3

    Just a question - did they not tell you about it at your 12 week scan and wait until this one? That gives me a whole new world of things to possible be anxious about.

    Nope didn't tell us till our sono tonight. Which is really strange. No idea why. Wish they would have so I could have the test sooner and could have enjoyed the AS a little more hard now. I am hoping I won't have to wait thru christmas too for test results.
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  • I'm sorry that you had a scary a/s.  Our baby had two soft markers for Ds at our 16w u/s (echogenic bowel and short femurs).  It took two full weeks for the Mat21 results to come back, but the baby has typical chromosomes.  Positive thoughts for you - the waiting is really hard.
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  • I'm sorry they didn't tell you about the findings of the 12w scan sooner, and I don't really know anything about this, but I would think it is a good sign that they did not see any additional markers in the A/S.  I hope everything works out OK!
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  • Congrats on two little boys! My T & P to you as you wait for more news.
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  • Praying for you guys. So sorry you're going through this.
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  • So sorry you had a rough scan, praying all goes well with further testing.

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  • Sending positive thoughts your way.
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  • Hoping for the best for you. Sorry you have to worry about this.
  • T&P'S for you. Sorry you are dealing with added worry.
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  • I also don't have any advice but wanted to send positive thoughts and lots of prayers your way!
  • Congrats on the twin boys! How fun!

    T&Ps for your tough news.
  • Sending you lots of good thoughts and (((hugs))). 
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  • I'm sorry. There are no words but prayers are sent your way. 2 boys is amazing!! How wonderful. I hope and pray they are healthy.
  • Congrats on the twin boys, and I'm sorry you have a stressful week ahead waiting for your results. Try to stay busy to keep your mind occupied, & I'll keep my fingers crossed for good news.
  • Praying for you and your boys.
  • Thinking about you. Let us know when you get your results.

    I would also be asking my dr. why they didn't mention it earlier if they saw it at the 12 week scan.
  • I don't really have any advice. My DS showed soft markers for ds on our a/s, but our amnio came back relatively normal and he was later born a healthy baby, with no chromosomal abnormalities so I hope that helps temporarily ease your mind. I know it's a hard situation, and the not knowing is torture I am so sorry your family is going through this. Lots of positive thoughts and prayers your way, congratulations on two wonderful babies regardless of the outcome.
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  • I am also pregnant with Di/Di Boy Girl twins and I must tell you that the NT scan at 12 weeks was a scary thing.  I was told that Baby B had a thicker than normal nuchal fold which can be indicative of Downs.  Add that to my AMA and it was an easy decision to have the Harmony test conducted. They also said Baby B's fluid sac was smaller than A's and there could be growth restriction complications later in pregnancy.  Which leads me to today, I am now 17 1/2 weeks...Harmony test came back less than 1/10000 chance of any of the 3 trisomies.  I also had my Level II full anatomy scan yesterday.  They were both perfect measurements and the fluid around both was great.  Sometimes, these things work themselves out.  I bring my late Grandmother's rosary to every Scan.  I believe that faith sometimes overcomes science ( and I am a scientist ).  Keep your head up and push through.  Everything will be ok :)
  • Congratulations on your boys! Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

    The maternit21 test can take up to 2 weeks to come back so do not get worried if it seems like it is taking a long time! Thinking of you !
  • Congrats first of all and of it helps we are waiting right now on results of tests also ... They found a "bright spot " on the lower intestine at my u/s with the high risk doctor ... so my T&P's are with you..
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  • Congrats on twin boys! I'm sorry the A/S didn't go as expected and I don't have any advice for you (FTM), but from everything I've been reading, it seems that most of these soft markers turn out fine - I'm sending positive thoughts your way and I hope you find some sense of calm while waiting for the results. 
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  • Im going through the same thing with you! I had the mat21 test done after our A/S last Wednesday and still waiting for results. Baby boy has clinodactyly, our only soft marker, Praying for you. This waiting game is awful.
  • Will be thinking of you--the wait is going to be long, but just enjoy and love your little boys!
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  • Sending lots of prayers that both boys are totally healthy!

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  • Congrats on your two little boys - I know you are worried, but I hope that everything turns out okay.
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  • Congratulations on two boys! Hope this week goes by very quickly...Sending T&P your way.
  • I hope it's just a false alarm and everything turns out okay! 
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  • Congrats on boys and hugs for the scary A/S. Hang in there, I hope more definitive results come soon.
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  • That is really odd they didn't tell you at your 12w a/s. They probably didn't want to tell you bc it was early and it was just 1 soft marker, but I thought they were legally obligated to tell.

    I had my 20week a/s last Monday - there was an EIF ( a bright white spot on the left side of the heart) which is a soft marker for Downs as well. I had a blood test done that day - I'm still waiting on results. :( 

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