SO long story short (or at least I'll try my best) .......
a month or so ago word got back to us that MIL likes to talk crap and discuss our finances and that we're "poor" (not by any means biotch!) and the typical bs that they say. I sent her an email and she responded saying things must have been taken out of term ..... not likely.
But anywho .... this past weekend same bs has been stirred up by her. Same crap (even though she said sorry it wont happen again) ... NOW shes sayin the past email i sent is going to jepordize her job cuz of a bunch of swear words and her boss will see it.
I said ONE word ... shiit. OMG hand her a pink slip! The last email contained the same amount and context!
Now this is my conclusion ...... SHE KNOWS SHE GOT BUSTED yet again ... and is trying to put the focus off of her and now on me like I'm the bad guy and she wants and apology.
I do believe she is coming over tonight so hmmmmm it should be interesting!
I'm seriously thinking I don't want my kids around a nut job like her!
Hell .... she has even threatened to take 'em away from me years before they were conceived.
Re: MIL vent .... all are welcome!
oh I forgot to ask ......
any advice on what I should do withthis crazy biotch?
I was tempted to tell her (if she brought up losin her job) that her bs and stress will make me lose somehting more important and to STFU or die!
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IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
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So you never heard her say any of this? Word got back to you? I wouldn't listen to hearsay and I would have approached it in a better way than through email and without cursing at her through her work email. It doesn't matter if it's one word. My company flags and reads emails with stuff like that in it so maybe she wouldn't get fired, but I wouldn't want my MIL's company knowing what was going on in my personal life.
As far as what she allegedly said, I would sit down with her face to face and talk to her and try to work out the issues rather than go back and forth through emails.
I should say too that she does sound like a petty b!tch if she is saying stuff like that behind your back and I hope you guys can work it out.
the hearsay part: is from a reliable source .... and she has stated the same things to my own mother. Multiple people have said the same story. PLUS I hear what she says about everyone else. So I do believe it to be true.
the email: I was very polite and used nice big 5 dollar words and the word was used as """ ....... please so the shit talking stops....." that's pretty much it. She has sent "inapropriate" jokes from that same email addy.
taking my kids away: she told us years ago that if I didn't treat my kids well she would take them from me and there's not a damn thing I could do cuz of the "grandparents rights law"
I'm telling you ladies, this woman is so miserbale in life that gosspi and story telling must get her off.
Ditto. My DH would be on his mom to stop the trash talking and respect his wife and the mother of his child (or soon to be child).
he claims to have talked to her plenty ......... but I'm never around or ever see any of it. So I wonder ..... he might be saying it to make me feel better and calm down.
DH along with all the other kids say "ignore her she just likes to talk"
THEY must be used to it but I wasn't raised that way!