TTC After a Loss

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Not really sure if I belong on this board, as things are up in the air between DH and myself about TTC so soon. It's been a little over a month since our loss (our angel baby was our unplanned honemoon surprise, and children weren't in our original plans for at least a year post-wedding) and AF has come and gone. I want to TTC, DH is stressed out about money and I hate it. We aren't technically trying to TTC, but I am hoping for a BFP soon. I want something happy again, losing Halyn stole all the newlywed joy away. =( Still grieving for the loss, ready to try again.

Hi everyone!

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  • I'm really sorry for your loss.  DH and I had a similar situation.  We got married 10/28/07, and our surprise BFP came 1/3/08.  Lost our baby at 10w1d, and 2008 has pretty much sucked.  You are welcome to hang out here.  It's a crappy club to have to join, but the ladies here make it more pleasant.  Good luck to you!
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  I know exactly how you feel.  I got pregnant right when we got home from the honeymoon so I know what it feels like to have that newlywed joy robbed from you.  I hope you get the support you need here.  Welcome!
  • So sorry for your loss! and i am kinda in the same boat as you we had an unplanned preg. and had 2 MCs and we are waiting until after the wedding or a month before even though FI wants to wait until we have money secured.

    Welcome!!

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I have discovered there are good and bad days. Today for me has been one of the bad days. My hormone level is starting to change and I am increasingly moody and emotional. I think it's perfectly normal to grieve. Just give yourself time.
  • Welcome to the group, don't stay too long!
    Baby Boy born still on March 10, 2008 at 21 wks 2 days : ( Finley Alyse born October 11, 2009 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Declan Jonathan born October 16, 2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board- there are several ladies on here who are waiting to TTC, but still in that mindset, so you're in good company!
  • Hi, welcome to our board!  I am very sorry for your loss.  This board is great for not just TTC but for all things random!  Make yourself comfy -- be forewarned though -- you may come away obsessed with charting!
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  • Everyone is welcome here! GL with whatever you decide to do. We are all here hoping for that perfect family, so however and whenever you decide to do it, you always have a place here :)
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