Background...my OBGYN (Dr Leung) had mixed reviews on internet, mostly she's
straight out, direct, and fast during appointments. The pros is some
ppl liked that and cons some ppl found her rude. We took our chances
since it was close to the hospital we wanted and thought it cant be that
bad! Ok at this last 35 wk appointment, I learned it could be AS BAD!
Basically OBGYN comes in room...reads my chart, and says "I'm really not
happy with you right now. You've gained 48 Lbs...but its weird, your
healthy, no high blood pressure, sugar levels good, and all your test
come back fine? Doesnt make sense." I look at my DH and wonder so whats
the problem? She than opens her dumb mouth and says the 2 things I
HATE!!!! "You know you are HUGE! Are you sure there arent twins in
there?" To which I think you f'n b-you-know-what the ONLY ppl that
should know if I am having twins or not would be you (my OBGYN) and
myself!!! But for whatever reason I stay quiet, I think I was in shock.
I smile and say "Nope, just one baby. But I'm glad to hear we are
healthy." She than goes on to say baby is healthy but his tummy is
measuring 2 weeks ahead of schedule, and he can be 6-8Lbs right now. I
ask is that ok, she responds "YES but thats a BIG baby. We may need to
induce or do c-section for such a BIG baby". WHich I have made it clear
those two procedures are for emergency purposes only and not just
because he might be big! I felt horrible and I knew at that moment she
had already put me in the "c-section" category, no matter what the next
weeks will bring. Mind you as 5 minute appointment ended, she said "you
should just eat fruits and veggies". I'm like really?? I am healthy, my
baby is healthy, and you are giving me this crappy recommendation which
has no balance in healthy foods. I also thought if there was a REAL
concern, she would of actually put me on a strict diet plan, had me
tested, had me come in sooner than our next scheduled appointment,
etc...but no she just wanted to say what she said. Of course I walked
out scared, crying, and thinking I'm screwed because she is gonna cut me
no matter what.
My husband tries to console me by saying ok we
need to come up with a game plan to beat this woman's plan. I'm like I
shouldnt have to figure out a way to beat my OBGYN!!! So after I decide
to call my doula and explain recent appointment. Thank god I have her
because she told me, you know you will probably have a better shot at
natural birth with a total stranger than this woman who obviously doesnt
know professionally deal with women who gain weight but are healthy. I
honestly felt like she mostly unprofessional to say to a pregnant woman
"you are huge...are you having twins"!! Like if she is like this now, I
cant imagine she will be comforting or supportive during labor. So I
called my insurance and primary doctor, who as soon as I say I want to
change my OBGYN and he ask for name, begins to giggle. YES giggle. I
say thats exactly why I need to change asap because I havent even told
you what she has done or why I need to change and it seems you might
already know why!! So with 28 days I got a new referral, new OBGYN, and
new hospital to deliver at, which might not seem the best but I'm so as
ease now knowing I get a fair chance at natural birth and medical
interventions if needed ONLY. I swear some ppl just want to cut you,
and have their own category of what your birth will look like. I swear
if I get the "we'll need to have a intervention because blah blah" than
I'm fine with it. But at 35 weeks discussing induction, c-section, and
than saying I'm completely healthy and baby doesnt match.
Now
to have to call my old OBGYN and get a release of medical records is my
last hump to get over. Kinda nervous, feels like a text break up. BUT a
good one!I wish I would of listened to reviews earlier and known better. So take this for an informative recent experience with her as a OBGYN.
Our journey together down this new path
Re: Rant: Be Aware Pasadena Mom's for Dr Leung
Just switched to dr parks and wanted to hug her after our first app.