My little one struggles with me so much when I try to latch her on. Her arms are flying every where and I try to tuck them between her and my other breast or between them, but nothing seems to help. She gets more frustrated and so do I. But if I dont my already really sore nipples get scretched and pinched every two seconds or she sticks her hand in her mouth. It takes sometimes 20 mins... I need some encouragement, this is so hard!