I was just wondering if anyone else has been in a situation like this and has any advice. DH is from New Zealand and all of his family live there. We live in the US. His parents are elderly and his dad in particular is not in the greatest health. We wanted to plan a visit to see them but found out I am pregnant with a high risk pregnancy (I am due April 17,2014) I was wondering if anyone has done international travel with your child(ren)? What age were they and how did you cope with their schedule and the time difference? My thought was it might be better to travel when the pediatrician says baby is clear to go because at that point the schedule is what it is. I thought it might be more difficult to travel with an older child and honestly I think we need to see my FIL as soon as possible. Any advice?