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Testing & Surgery

freakyfastfreakyfast member
edited October 2013 in Secondary IF

Well ladies, after having an emotional past 2 days, I am finally ready to tell you all.

Our genetic testing came back, and out of our 7 embryos, we now only have 1.  Only one out of the 7 was normal. 

I have been a ball of mess the past two days, since I got the call.  We had hoped for a few good embryos to try to have two children total.  Since we are completely OOP we probably will not be able to afford another round of IVF.  We could however, afford another frozen transfer in a year or so, but that will now not happen. 

If I can leave you with anything, it’s that genetic testing is so important, if you have that option, and it is definitely worth the money.  It is hard to hear it now, but in the long run it was for the best.  

I also just scheduled my surgery to have my tubes removed on 11/05, so I am super nervous about that now too.  Just when you think you can take a breather, everything starts to happen so fast again.

I will put all positive energy, thoughts and prayers into our wonderful and strong embie.

Thank you all for being here, and being you... 

xoxo



  


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Huge hugs! You are so strong! I will be sending all my thoughts and prayers your way! 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    Ugh, I wish I could reach through this laptop and just hug you so hard!! Im so sorry, you have shown incredible strength throughout this process. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.. Sending more hugs your way!!!
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I wish I could reach through my phone and give you a big tall alcoholic beverage with an umbrella in it served by a tall dark handsome and hung cabana boy!

    Seriously, hugs to you!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Thank you so much, you are all so wonderful! <3



      


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  • AlmostWrightAlmostWright member

    I am so sorry :( You and your strong embie will be in my thoughts. If you have any questions about the surgery, just let me know.

    DS born Jan 2010

    TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)

    Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013

    BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium

    Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158

    5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin

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  • uagirluagirl member
    Hugs! Praying for you and your super strong embie!
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    DD born 8/9/10
    TTC #2 since 8/2012
    CP 12/2012
    dx MFI 10/2013
    Surprise BFP 11/6/2013  EDD 7/19/2014
    Beta #1 15 dpo HCG 355 Prog 30.9
    Beta #2 22 dpo HCG 8147 Prog 18.8
    Beta #3 29 dpo HCG 44580 Prog 29.8

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  • AprilDrew04AprilDrew04 member
    Sending you my thoughts and prayers.

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    DD conceived after 3 years of ttc.
    MFI - DH had varicocele repair and took Clomid to get DD b. 02/2010

    TTC #2 since 6/2010
    10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
    A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013. 
    DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair. 
    Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies. 
    Wishing, hoping, waiting.


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Oh hun.  I'm so sorry.  Praying that your embie is strong and determined to be a take-home baby!
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    I am so sorry. Tons of good growing thoughts.

    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Thank you all so very much! Your prayers, thoughts and hugs mean the world to me! 



      


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  • ally510ally510 member
    I'm so sorry! I hope your strong embie gives you a strong, healthy baby. Best of luck with your surgery. ((hugs!))
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