I am 9 1/2 weeks today and as excited as I should be I can't help but feel a shit ton of anxiety. The father of my baby and I are no longer together because he was physically abusive and I left him before I knew I was pregnant now I feel obligated to tell him but at the same time I don't think it's safe to because if he did this to me how do I trust he won't eventually do it to my child. Since then I've discovered he has a a new gf who is also pregnant. (Reality show shit or what) I didn't plan this pregnancy but I can't sit and say it was a mistake. I had a miscarraige with my ex back in jan and it was the most terrible pain ive ever had and now that in pregnant again I just feel so happy that I get another chance. But then I start realizing I'm alone and I probably will be for awhile and even though I'm going to eventually tell him I'm pregnant I get scared that he will shun my and my baby and just go on the raise that other woman's and be a "family" like I had originally planed. How will I juggle work? Pay for everything on my own I have support from my family but as far as living situations or help financially / babysitting etc it's just not there. Sorry to bring down the mood but I'm just really Lost and I want to be happy/strong for my baby but it's just really hard sometimes
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um he starting sleeping around pretty quickly if you're 9 weeks and he has a girlfriend that already knows she's pregnant too....I call MUD on this
The Rowdy Roberts
Anyway, OP, good for you for leaving the shitbag. Once an abuser, always an abuser. He won't change, and it'll probably escalate. He probably isn't treating his new pregnant gf like a princess, either, so I don't think they're going to have the picture-perfect family like you might imagine. I'd be very wary of having the guy in my life or involved with the child in any way. PP have excellent advice in regards to seeking child support and assistance if you need it. GL!
The Rowdy Roberts
09/23/11 - Married DH
04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks
05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d
08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d
09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!
10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!
12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!
05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!
The Rowdy Roberts
You put your dirty laundry out on here and people will speculate.
MUD = made up drama
We see a lot of it on here, so when you post something that sounds like a Jerry Springer out take, don't be surprised if a few people take it with a pinch of salt.
Oh and chill out hun. No need to get so aggressive.
09/23/11 - Married DH
04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks
05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d
08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d
09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!
10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!
12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!
05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!
MUD is made up drama and thats what this sounds like to me. your response didn't make me think any differently either.
and like @awc1986 said, you put it out there for people to judge....
The Rowdy Roberts
The Rowdy Roberts
I honestly don't really care about it. I just don't want people feeling sorry and taken advantage of by someone who is lying.
also, your profile indicates you joined this website in December of 2012
The Rowdy Roberts
And you clearly have no idea what cyber bullying is if you think this is it. You're talking about being physically abused by your baby's father, yet a stranger disagreeing with you on the Internet seems to have you more upset? What?!
BTW - well done for having a full time job. So have many people on here - including me.
09/23/11 - Married DH
04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks
05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d
08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d
09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!
10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!
12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!
05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!
I'm fairly certain that mentioning when you joined TB and that I wasn't sure you were being honest isn't abuse.
The Rowdy Roberts
Not to be a white knight but I find it laughable that you think a POS abuser was actually faithful. You don't think there are tons and tons of losers out there who sleep with multiple women? I promise you that they are a dime a dozen.
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The Rowdy Roberts
I have to say that I still honestly think this is MUD. We have been given no further details on the situation that would confirm it and when pushed, OP freaks out and tells us to mind our business? It just stinks of MUD. Why would you air your dirty laundry on the internet, then refuse to give further information that could help get you better advice? She seemed very open in the first post, then all of a sudden she becomes aggressive and cagey?
I have the utmost sympathy and respect for people who are abused. I just don't trust OP.
09/23/11 - Married DH
04/01/13 - BFP at 4wks
05/30/13 - MMC - BO @ 12wks 5d
08/29/13 - BFP @ 4wks 4d
09/17/13 - 7wks 2d - Normal HB Detected! Baby measuring perfect for dates and positioning!
10/23/13 - 12wks 3d - Perfect NT scan! HB 167 & baby wriggling, waving & yawning!
12/17/13 - 20wks 2 d - We're having a beautiful baby girl! Go Team Pink!
05/03/14 - Bobbie Gloria was born at 39+6 weighing 6lb 14oz!
Also @Igibbs0724 : the flag button is not a dislike button. Someone questioning the validity of your story does not make a violation of TOS.
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