So I am 27 weeks and 5 days! There are a lot of things that I have loved about being pregnant, feeling the kicks, seeing my little girl in the US, knowing that I will finally get to be a mom. Things like that. I am also feeling extremely guilty a lot. I know that I have by far not had the worst pregnancy but I also know that I have not had the easiest. My HD has been helpful in some respects but unfortunately if the situation is not one that he has been in before he just doesn't get it. He doesn't understand the back pain, foot pain, or really anything that I am going through. Which is understandable, how could he know.
The issue I am having is that while I know he can't be empathetic I feel like he should be more sympathetic. Getting him to help around the house is like pulling teeth, whether its cleaning something up or helping set up the nursery! On the other hand though I feel like I shouldn't ask him to help around the house because he is working very hard to support us so that I can get my degree before the baby gets here. Hence the feeling like a bad person. I am torn between should he be doing more since I am having trouble keeping up with housework and school, or am I just being a hormonal whiner!
Also, on a slightly different note, does anyone else's DH not seem to show hardly any excitement? I know my DH is thrilled we are having a baby, it comes out sometimes, but most of the time it seems like he's just "meh" about the whole situation!
Thanks for letting me get this out!