May 2014 Moms

Scared Party of 1?

So today I have been getting anxiety that I haven't had before. Suddenly 9 months seems like a really long time. Then comes labor, which I'm terrified of. After that is raising this tiny little being that is completely dependent upon me for everything. All that I do, intentionally or not, will shape him/her.

Don't get me wrong I am thrilled to be expecting and we have been wanting this. Today was just the first time I wasn't just simply 100% excited. The anxiety kind of surprised me, and now that in itself is making me nervous.

Am I the only one?

Re: Scared Party of 1?

  • It is a huge life change.  Being nervous is totally normal.  Luckily you have lots of time to prepare.  You are not alone in being worried.

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  • Take a deep breath, it'll be ok.  Totally normal to be nervous. 

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  • Have had those feelings the last 2 days. I'm nervous for my first appointment/ultrasound and the pregnancy and the birthing and the raising of this little baby. My goodness! Need a glass of wine... and I can't have it. :(
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  • I think it would be more concerning (and abnormal) if you DIDN'T have those feelings.

    What it tells me is that you're taking your responsibility as a mother seriously and that you'll be a conscientious parent. Both good things in my book.

    I'm the meantime, take a deep breath and trust yourself. You can do this!

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