No obvious symptoms and still asked if I was pregnant

Arinias

So yesterday my co-worker texted me and flat out asked if I was pregnant, she said she kept having dreams I was. I responded not that I was aware of but we had been talking about it. I joked with her today at work about her having dreams about me, she basically said she is not convinced and thinks I am and pointed out I was tired today. I will add I have had no obvious symptoms at work except for peeing more often, but I am by myself a lot so people don't know that, and my shirt is too baggy for my boobs or bloat to be obvious. Also today was my Monday, we have a tiring job, and I didn't sleep a lot last night which I told her, so being tired is not strange. I am slightly impressed at her intuitiveness, she said there was something about me, but I am more annoyed at even being asked! I mean one I kind of feel like it is saying I look fat, two it's none of her business, and three she is not the first person I would tell because I feel like five minutes later everyone would know! I am not really sure how to deal with her right now. I mean unless you are tiny with a giant baby belly, when is that ever an acceptable question to ask someone?

sisterjanet

You could try telling her about your dream and see if that shuts her up. 

Early on when I was pregnant with my son, my sister called and asked because she had a dream I was too.  It's weird, but at least it's my sister so I was going to tell her first anyway.

Arinias

Thanks guys, I don't actually think she is calling me fat and I am sure she has the best intentions. When I started working there she was pregnant and I feel like it will be great to talk to her when I am ready to announce it, I just feel like it was rude to ask and feel bad about lying. But I do not want to be pressured into telling before I am ready.
sisterjanet It is kind of awesome that your sister dreamt about it! I can't wait to tell mine and I am leaning towards telling her after the first ultrasound before we surprise the rest of the family.

knash87

That is kind of strange... Tho the first time I was pregnant I felt like I was giving out some kind of vibe because my co-workers/family would keep asking when we were going to have one.. Tia literally started right after I found out. And.. I had a feeling another coworker was pregnant, then a few weeks later someone told me she was. I swear, it's a vibe we give off! Regardless though, I would NEVER ask. I wait for e info to be offered

shortnstumpy

One of the girls at work is pregnant with her second baby. The day after I got my BFP I went to work and she asked my if I was pregnant. She said she just felt like I was pregnant!

Arinias

Boggles my mind a little how people just know. Must be some strange vibe we put off, I wonder if I will gain this skill after having my first?

shepardcommander

The day before I got my BFP, one of my best friends, who currently lives in a different state, messaged me out of the blue and asked if I was pregnant. At that point, I was pretty sure I was, & and I asked what made her so sure. She said she just knew. So weird! 

hsal

The adjustment counselor at the high school I teach at, came up to me and asked me.  She she could see my "baby aura". I wasn't sure how to lie to her since we weren't telling anyone yet!