We all know its a dead giveaway to attend a happy hour without drinking, or a friend's bday without the champagne toast. Anyone have good excuses that don't raise suspicion?
I just hold a beer the whole time. Or if I use the bathroom I dump half out. No one noticed that I wasn't actually drinking the other night at a friend's party!
Happy hours I "go to the bathroom" and tell the bartender that I'm pregnant and to please do non-alcoholic versions. But our happy hours are usually at the same place and I know her pretty well. Champagne I would maybe take a sip, but I don't really like champagne anyway. Maybe walk away and dump it like someone suggested?
This makes me sound like such a lush! I'm really not!
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Tonight we had a big BBQ with friends and family and I took DH's empty bottles and filled them with water. The other night I went over to my parents house for dinner and they poured me a glass of wine, thank god it was in a colored glass vs a clear glass, and I dumped it and filled it back up with water in the bathroom. I don't bother with excuses for why I'm not drinking, I learn how to fake drink.
Last pregnancy we went out for my friends birthday for dinner and to a bar afterwards... dh told the waitress she had fun with it and asked me if i wanted a double! lol... and then dh told the bar tender at the bar... it was such a fun night!
We went away for a long weekend with friends and everyone is drinking all day and night. I pulled the antibiotic excuse but luckily I had real pills to back up my story. I had gotten a prescription from my dentist months ago that he told me to hold onto and luckily I still had it!
GREAT suggestions---thanks! I ended up having DH switch glasses with me periodically (though we got caught once; maybe I should have followed some advice here instead!) tonight is two more social outings; I think I'll try a few of these ideas on them! Thanks, ladies!
I work as a bartender men always order drinks for there partner! I even had a guy chug his beer and ask me to fill with water lol. This trick seems to be the best. Just don't allow anyone to buy you a drink. Or else your poring that down the sink in the bathroom lol.
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Re: Suggested excuses to friends for why I am not drinking alcohol!?
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I've dumped my bottle of beer (I hate that) and filled with water. So yes I'm drinking, but no one knows what.
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