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Sorry if this had been asked before- TTC after early mc how long should we wait?

starchick78starchick78 member
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I just had a very early mc 5-6 wks. I saw my doc yesterday who said we could try again straight away. My question is whether its best to wait 1 more cycle? We want to try right away but I am worried that my body may need one cycle to get back to normal and if we don't give it that we could lose the next one too? I am 35
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Re: Sorry if this had been asked before- TTC after early mc how long should we wait?

  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    Sorry for your loss...Follow your doctors advice. 
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  • Poppy715Poppy715 member

    I'm sorry for your loss.

    Yes this question has been asked a bazillion times. We usually tell people to ask their doctor but you've already discussed this with him. If you aren't comfortable trying yet then wait. 1 more cycle isn't much at all in the grand scheme of things.

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  • SandSunBlissSandSunBliss member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  The answer is usually whenever your doctor clears you, which sounds like it has already happened.  It's just as important to be ready emotionally as it is to be cleared by a doctor.  I think if you are more comfortable and would feel less fear waiting a cycles, then that may be the right choice for you. 

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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    Poppy715 said:

    I'm sorry for your loss.

    Yes this question has been asked a bazillion times. We usually tell people to ask their doctor but you've already discussed this with him. If you aren't comfortable trying yet then wait. 1 more cycle isn't much at all in the grand scheme of things.

    We've got tons of info on the topic in our TTCAL blog. Click the blue badge in my signature or the link in the board's header.

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  • MissMandyDMissMandyD member
    If you doctor has given you the green light then it is really up to your personal comfort level. I am sorry for your loss.
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  • uneek1323uneek1323 member
    ksgsmu said:
    Sorry for your loss...Follow your doctors advice. 
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  • LaRomana09LaRomana09 member
    uneek1323 said:
    This is probably one of the most asked questions on this board. If you're not ready, then there's nothing wrong with waiting one cycle. Just because your doctor said you could try again right away, doesn't mean you have to. Most women I've seen wait 2-3 cycles. It's been about 9 for me. If you're more comfortable waiting one or 2 cycles, then that's what's right for you.
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  • RustyGirl3RustyGirl3 member
    Very sorry for your loss.

    I agree with all PP's...If you Dr says its ok then it's just up to how you feel.  If you don't feel ready to, then don't.
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  • ky29ky29 member
    So sorry for your loss.  Like the PPs said.. if your doctor has cleared you, you can start whenever you feel comfortable.  It's up to you, do whatever you feel is right. 

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  • Mr. & Mrs. WoodtickMr. & Mrs. Woodtick member
    uneek1323 said:
    This is probably one of the most asked questions on this board. If you're not ready, then there's nothing wrong with waiting one cycle. Just because your doctor said you could try again right away, doesn't mean you have to. Most women I've seen wait 2-3 cycles. It's been about 9 for me. If you're more comfortable waiting one or 2 cycles, then that's what's right for you.

    I think this is great advice. Sorry for your loss.


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