History on me. First baby was vaginal birth with no problems, Second were twins we had a C due to them being breach. I am 19 weeks pregnant and by the time I have this baby the twins will be over 4 years old. So based on my history I am a great candidate for a vbac. My OB said he would not recommend it but he will support me fully if I choose a vbac.
So here is my question. How do I get rid of this nagging in my brain that says "what if I am the 1% that has a uterine rupture?" "What if my choice causes the death of my child?"
Does this ever go away? or is it just me that feels this way? I really don't want another C for many reasons including the recovery. I will have no help and 4 kids. DH wants me to do the C but he has no idea how painful and long the recovery is and the risks it poses for me. How do I convince him and myself Vbac is the better way to go.