WDPT about this thread?

RondackHiker

This was posted on February 2014. I'm feeling really squicked out by the whole 'teen porn fantasy' thing.

The actresses may be older but it seems off to fantasize about sex with teenagers. I'm willing to admit I may be prudish about that, but I find it creepy.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12032759/husband-porn-on-phone#latest

theseaword

Is "it depends" too wishy washy? If the chicks have braces and look 14, that's a problem. If he only ever looks at teen porn, that's a problem. If it's just one random porn site among other types of sites, and the women on it are perky but not child like, I'd be meh about it.

Way more concerned about the texting.

I also only read half the thread so if she does specify he only likes teen stuff or the women look like 14 yr olds, I would revise my answer.

MrsT0514

M&MHaveMyHeart said:

The whole thing doesn't sit well with me.

This. I don't consider myself a prude by any means. But a grown man looking at teen porn? That's just fucking creepy. Plus the sexting...nope. None of that sits well with me in the least.

NotSharknado

He sounds like a douch but I'm not sure my mind would go straight to child porn. There's a lot of stuff out there labeled teen when in fact those women are of age.

Again, the husband is still an ass and sexting is emotional cheating.

RondackHiker

shanado said:

He sounds like a douch but I'm not sure my mind would go straight to child porn. There's a lot of stuff out there labeled teen when in fact those women are of age.

Again, the husband is still an ass and sexting is emotional cheating.

My mind didn't necessarily go to kiddie porn... I've never seen anything in the teen porn genre, so I took it the way one poster there described it, as 18-19 year old girls who look younger and the idea is the "fantasy", which I took as the fantasy of having sex with underaged girls.

That fantasy is what creeps me out, but school girl porn/fetishes freaks me out too, especially for adults well older than 18.

It's not fantasizing about an adult that looks young I find creepy. It's pretending to be younger and fantasizing about that I find creepy.

Plus his sexting and lying and her saying he doesn't make her feel good.

RondackHiker

crystaladult said:

They're both douches. He's done this in the past and she's having a fourth child with him. Sexting is a much bigger issue. Teen porn is nowhere even close to the same category as child porn.

I agree sexting is pretty darn bad and a big issue for them. And she's kind of an idiot for staying with him when he makes her unhappy and lies and repeats behavior she doesn't like (like sexting).

And of course teen porn isn't the same as victimizing actual kids. But if the idea of a teen porn was to fantasize about having sex with underaged girls, I'd be grossed out, even if the porn itself is legal.

RondackHiker

gwinnygirl said:

RondackHiker said:

crystaladult said:

They're both douches. He's done this in the past and she's having a fourth child with him. Sexting is a much bigger issue. Teen porn is nowhere even close to the same category as child porn.

I agree sexting is pretty darn bad and a big issue for them. And she's kind of an idiot for staying with him when he makes her unhappy and lies and repeats behavior she doesn't like (like sexting).

And of course teen porn isn't the same as victimizing actual kids. But if the idea of a teen porn was to fantasize about having sex with underaged girls, I'd be grossed out, even if the porn itself is legal.

I think there's a lot of speculation going on that people viewing "teen" porn (18+) as wanting to bone underage kids. It could be, as PPs have mentioned, they are just turned on by a person not as old as they are, this does not make them any more or less pervy, imo.

I like some younger men, and I can almost guarantee H finds younger women attractive.


I think there's a big difference between watching porn that stars 18/19 year olds and porn that stars 18/19 year olds acting like young teens. Does tha make sense?

A lot of my initial squickiness was from the poster who described it as "the fantasy" of younger girls (as in under the age of consent). There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about sex with someone younger than you. Fantasizing about someone under the age of consent is creepy to me... But I already said I find the classic school girl fantasy disturbing.

RondackHiker

MommyLizzy said:

ItsAllGravy7 said:

I bet he fucked that work chick too. Just sayin.

Of course he did. If youre gonna fuck around, you might as well fuck around all the way KWIM?
I also don't think she'll leave him.  She'll be back on her BMB in 6 months crying about walking in on him.


She'll be crying about more porn in six months. In eight or nine she'll be crying that he's spending a lot of time talking to and texting this female friend of his, and that he insists it's hurt friendly and she wants to know how to get him to see it's inappropriate. In a year she'll be KU again and he'll get caughting fucking someone.

RondackHiker

Brandi Bee said:

And she'll probably blame it all on porn too.....not his incredibly shitty character.

Duh.

RondackHiker

crystaladult said:

Lol. Just because there is porn on his phone does not mean he's a sex addict.

I'm pretty sure she was being sarcastic and saying that will be his wife's excuse.

NotSharknado

I'm sorry but I don't feel bad for people like this. She's obviously getting something out of this deal in order for her to have stuck around.

Oh, you're a cheating asshole? Lets have more kids together. Swell.

MrsT0514

shanado said:

I'm sorry but I don't feel bad for people like this. She's obviously getting something out of this deal in order for her to have stuck around.

Oh, you're a cheating asshole? Lets have more kids together. Swell.

Agreed. Putting the porn issue aside, this guy seems like a real douche canoe...abd has been unfaithful, emotionally at the very least, repeatedly..and she's repeatedly putting up with it.

Sorry OP..but you can either put up with shit or break the cycle. The ball seems to be in your court now. I'd GTFO...at least for your kids' sake.

Eta..LOL. I had to go back thru this post and I realized that the OP never posted here, we were all just commenting on her original thread. My above comment is what I would've told her. Oops. Comprehension fail on my part!