Infertility

starting to feel stressed again

So H should be going in for his tese , pese in feb and they will hopefully start my ivf cycle then. Everytime i talk to the nurse at the fert center to talk about making apointments or to ask a question....i get so discouraged.

 When we talk to the urologist he seems hopeful he will find sperm and we will have sucsess...when i talk to the nurse she is very negative and always brings up donor back up which h and i have already talked about a million times that we are not ready to even approach that yet...we wanna see how one  cycle goes. Of course we will be risking a cycle if the sprem dont make it through the freeze...

 I hate all of this so much. I was driving today just praying  to god..please dont take this away from us!

i know that probably sounds dramatic but its how i feel.

thanks for listening

TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April

Re: starting to feel stressed again

  • You do not sound dramatic at all!

    What you are going through is very stressful. ?I hope everything works out for you. :)?

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  • I have often let the "tone" of the nurses really get to me.

    I do not know what it is, like if its something they are trained to do or what. You just need to stay focused on your plan and that does not incl the donor sperm. I am certain if your DOCTORS (not  a nurse) felt you had no chance using his own you would know by now....Best of luck you, you are very strong!

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